How to get a blowjob/handjob from the girl

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    After you've made her cum, keep fingering her, keeping her stimulated, and then get close to her ear and say softly but in a commanding way, "I want you to give me head."

    9 times out of 10 this will work.



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    I don't want to get in the mindset of the original poster... IMO getting head is not a big deal, you just turn them on for a while, finger them, then straddle them and politely offer your dick to their mouth.

    what's with all the verbalizing? verbalizing is good if the reason you are talking about it is to turn her on by making her fantasize your actions in advance. otherwise, if you are just doing it as a way to push her to do something, then it is better to indicate your desire physically.

    putting her hand on your dick while you're fingering her, is a good way to indicate what you want.

    the last hook up i had, once we were both naked and i was fingering her, i straddled her and said "will you suck me." for some reason she then got really into it, but maybe that depends on the girl. i have diddly squat experience, so i can't tell you how that will work with future lays.

    nonetheless in my limited experience, putting her hand on your dick is a strong move because it turns her on.

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    pump BT!!! i just got dome on a booze cruize in front of everyone, then the girl paid for the taxi ride and gave me road head the whole time. we did have sex, but the next morning she handed me a condom and kinda looked at me for a minute, waiting for me to put it on. she then said "what?". to which i replied: "i just want dome for a minute". i got my morning bj
    i tend to say things like that confidently yet casually, and it really works out for me. just make sure its not a one sided affair. i mean, u get a bj, she gets a mouth full of ur wad. make it a comfortable and natural situation, and u will get ur bj.

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    BJ on first date

    Someone I met here at the forum seemed interested in the fact I could get girls to give me head on the first day. So here it goes. Before I discovered game I did go on lots of internetdates. I know it sounds lame but hey keep in mind that it was before game. Anyway all I had to go on was stuff I made up myself in the early periods this led to me fingering girls at parcs, trainstops, movietheaters,... and getting the occasional hand job.
    As I got better things got a lil more advanced. I actually lost my virginity on a first date with a girl. Got my first BJ and first fuck on the same day. So this than led to me for example meeting up with a girl at her place for the first date and me getting BJ in movietheaters.
    So here 's how it goes, how I get chicks I meet on the internet to share their knowledge with my little head.
    First I would do some standard chatting stuff like:
    ME: blablabla how are you?
    girl: Oh I m fine just got this one problem blablabla
    ME: how interesting blablabla hug
    girl: thanks blablabla blablabla

    So this might go on for some time, maybe several chat sessions, maybe months.
    Anyway I would get the girl to agree to a date and maybe the days before the date start some cybersex with her (I know what you 're thinking: "What girls hate that shit, that doesn't work")
    Sometimes I would start cybersex almost as soon as I started chatting with a chick.

    So here comes the date:

    I get out my phone and call to confirm this is the right girl (mostly I 'm positioned behind the girl)

    ME on phone: Hey you turn around
    ME: Hi (kiss on cheek)
    girl: hi (kiss back
    ME: how are you?
    girl: fine and you?
    ME: fine thanks, let 's go inside (or talk outside if it 's an outside scene or if we have time before the movie)
    girl: ok
    Me: (takes girl by hand or presents arm and leads her in)

    In the movietheater we yak a bit about you know whatever.
    When the room gets a bit darker I start rubbing my hand against hers (if I had to let go after entry)
    This than leads to hand holding, EC and K-close.
    After the K-close kissing doesn't stop screw the movie
    Than I would rub her leg, proceed to putting my hand under her shirt slowly creeping up. Now this is important when you start to approach her breasts she will most likely stop you LMR you know combined with fear of public places. But just ignore this guys (unless she 's realy persistent, if she realy meens it you can tell we 're not animals). Now even if she 's keeping you back you should get at least maybe one finger touching the bottom side of her breast. eventualy she 'll stop the LMR and you 'll be able to go for the full grab. Now your job is to get her nipples hard. You can either do this over the bra, plop the boobie out of the bra from the bottom, or go in from the middle.
    Now you got her nipples hard and ofcourse her pussy wet. You than proceed by going for the poon. Now it 's time to earn your BJ, you show her trics they 've never seen, heard from, or felt (this works even better if you 've convinced the girl beforehand that you are the king of sex)... After you 've made her cum you guide her hand towards you pants after some in the pants stuff unzip your pants, she will start giving you a hand job, than you put your arm around her shoulder (like in the famous yawn-routine) and gently guide her down.
    Well I know your eyes are probably hurting by now but test this stuff out and feel free to PM me if you have questions or tips for me. I actualy first thought about posting this as a thread but I thought hey there 's allready BJ topic so If you guys think I should make this into a new thread (although it 'll probably wind up in jive turkey droppings :lol make sure to let me know
    bye now

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