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me and my gf had been 'together' ...
my girlfriend ask why i dont fuk her...
me and my gf had been 'together' for 6months now... we havent had sex yet. i m 26, she is 20, we are both V. she always ask me why i dont hve sex with her... well the problem is, that is a lot of pressure for me. i dont want to fuk her if i m going to dump her in the future.. plus, god says adultery is sin and will send those to hell.. arent you afraid?
i know i m AFC here... can you help me? what should i do?
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dude we all have urges, dont think so much. I respect your beliefs, but if you are not going to wait to have sex until your married, then you plan on having sex, right?
Do it. Its awesome. And if you've been with her for 6 months you arent going to dump her tomorrow, or in reality anytime soon, right? Don't over analize.
Have fun, be loose, david d say women arent attracted to guys who can't lead, women like to be lead. She needs a guide.
Suck it up, start slow. But she will bail and F someone else, specially since she seems ready.
organized religion is the opiate of the masses
i practice roman catholocism, however, i also believe that anything that requires me to chant in unison with two hundred other people cant be that good for me.
i pay the ten percent, i attend the major masses, and i fully believe in God... i also have sex... alot
but, i view sex as a healthy exchange between two loving, consentual adults.. and when you both orgasm at the same time; let me tell you that is the most powerfull religous experience ive ever had.
love can be there forever, or just fleeing; its been six months, you dont plan on using her, and she wants you to share that with her..... id say that doesnt qualify as adultery
So, you want to have sex with one woman for the rest of your life...
Originally Posted by monki
The choice of abstinence is your own to make.
I'm not too familiar with the details, but if you are not yet married to the girl, does it still count as adultery? Or is pre-marital sex just as bad? Does it matter if you use a condom?
But you do hope to have sex with her once you're married right?
Let's see. If you dont feel comfortable with full vaginal intercourse due to religious reasons, how about going as far as third base? Does your God probit masturbation, fellatio and cunnilingus too? There are many ways to fulfil both of your sexual desires without resorting to the missionary position[no pun intended]. Try Harlequin's stacking orgasms.
And lastly, if you dont want to marry that gf of yours, dump her now, go sarge and find that woman with whom you would be proud to walk the aisle in church. You'd rather spend time looking for your beloved than making her more sexually frustrated till she cheats on you with another guy.
(If you've never failed, you've never lived.)
i think that this is a question of religion, mate.
if you are prepared to have sex before you are married, then go for it. However, if you want to have sex solely with the girl that you shall marry, then this is a big risk. i have interpreted your post as you only wanting to have sex with her if you are going to marry her- hope i haven't misinterpreted.
Personally, i am religious- Catholic. However, i disagree with the Church's view on sex before marriage. my view is that sex is a healthy process; abstaining goes against your very nature. Survival and REPLICATION- sex is the R part.
but dude, this is only my personal opinion. If your religious beliefs are strong, which i assume is the case, and you don't want to violate them, i would advise you not to do it. Are you prepared to take the risk? lets say you fukc her, and you 2 break up at some point, which is probably a strong possibilty, how would you feel? would you be okay with transgressing against your religious teachings, or would you feel guilt? remorse? you have to think about all the possible scenarios, and how you would feel in them
ultimately man, its your choice- just make the right decision for you.
hope this helps
i think your gonna want to have sex before you get married. think about this: i personally was not really able to have good sex until my third time. the first time i ever had sex, i was so nervous/shy i got soft shortly after i put the condom on. and the second time i had sex i was so new to it that i couldnt even please the girl. after some practice i got really good at it and was able to satisfy my girlfriends.
also, if your girlfriend is not sexually satisfied she is more likely to cheat. shes 20 and shes horny, i dont think shes gonna wait around for you to get married just so she can get some dick. and i dont know about you, but in my relationship i want to know that my girl can satisfy me, how are you going to know if you never try?
Premarital sex is not adultery.
Originally Posted by monki
When I am writing in red, it's as an Attraction Forums mod or admin. When I write in normal text, it's just me.
I feel a bastard to say this, its like telling a child that santa isnt real.....
GOD ISNT REAL!!!
Woops, did i just say that. Sorry.
All the best
You are what you do repeatedly, Mystery
yup, adultery is only adultery when you having sex after you are married and by sneaking of behind her back.
Originally Posted by Vapor
are you doing any of that? nope
The Auckland Lair
Whatever your beliefs are is fine but think logically about this.. im sure monkeys dont think twice about marriage when there gettin there end away. It is very niave to believe in todays society, abit off topic but its controlling and you are going agaisnt your natural urges in worry of what might happen from something thats never truely been proved to exist. Religion is used to scare people into doing what it wants us to do. Always the classic that the rulers of countrys held harems yet preached it a sin for anyone else to have more than one woman... birth control rings a bell for me, hmmm