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Thread title says it all, how/what can ...
how to make a girl give good head?
Thread title says it all, how/what can you do to go about getting a girl to up her game in that area - especially if she is new to it?
Out and out tell her (NICELY) next time shes going down on you to do "so and so". If shes blowing you its cause she wants to please you and if you tell her doing something different would feel better she'll be all for it.
Originally Posted by governor
Note: I'm assuming girlfriend relationship here.
Be nice about it. Most women's main reason for not giving BJs is that they are self-concious that they won't do it right. How would you want a girl to tell you how to eat pussy? Don't say anything about not liking anything she does, stay positive. When she goes down on you politely tell her how to modify what she's doing to make it better..."Now do ____", "do ____ too", "try it like ____", etc. If she's doing something you absolutely don't like then just suggest something you do like but do it in a positive way. Never say that you don't like anything she does - instead replace "I don't like that" with "I like ____, try that". If you tell her you don't like something she'll get self-concious about everything she does in the process. Don't be negative at all. Also give good positive feedback. Tell her how good she's doing - make her feel good for doing a good job and she will be more open to do it more often and to experiment. Be negative about this and chances are you won't get much head from her. If she fails to listen or is a slow learner then resort to punishment by cumming in her eyes
Maybe its just me, but no matter how good the head I'm getting is, it takes me FOREVER to cum.
Like I'm talking half an hour plus...girls jaws really don't have that much endurance...
I'm not sure if its just me, or the girls I've been with, but I don't concur at all with the "be nice" shit.
What I say is "watch the teeth.. ahhh there you go.. wow nice.. mmm ... nice...." (crap now I want a blow job)
Because really, if she is giving bad head, then I'll lose my erection anyway.
Also, the first few times I got head, I was too timid to be like "uhh don't do that" but now I think telling them "that was good when you did this" works.
Don't be rude but don't be a puss about it either, just straight up say what gets you off.. .girls WANT to get you off, if she feels a little self-concious about it for a second, then she feels your dick get harder, she'll be glad.
Just my experience so far
you want the real answer???
ok, this is what you do: don't be nice about it, make her give good head. the way you do this is by holding her head against your cock with one hand and holding her nose with the other one. don't hold it for too long though, you don't want to sufficate her.
Presumably that was a joke? ^^^^
I don't mean be nice like some kind of puss, I just mean don't be rude or negative and offer positive reinforcement. This is a sensitive thing for some women and if you fuck it up you won't be getting head from her for long...
Yeah I know you meant that, but writing can be vague and I wanted to just make sure it was clear because if I had read it 2 years ago, I'd have thought talking to a girl in bed was like walking on coals and you have to concentrate on exactly what to say.... my first few female experiences kind of sucked because I was a bit too chicken to say "baby, kiss my dick" with full conviction and no apologies, just straight up.
Originally Posted by themadtongue
When this girl gives head to me I can't feel anything good at all, and I lie there, or stand there thinking about the drive home. Infact, when I was getting head from the same girl on the drive home I had to tell her to stop because it just wasn't getting me anywhere.
I think she has some set routine that's worked on other guys but really doesn't get me off. I wish I could tell her what I liked but I'm a virtual virgin, I've no idea what I like. When virtually nothing she's doing feels good how am I supposed to direct her to doing the right thing? I've still yet to cum during sex so am getting pretty stressed about the whole thing.