SCARS AND SEX
Some advice needed. When I was about 17 I had something akin to stomach cancer and had various surgeries, anyway flash forward and I am fine (it doesn't effect my confidence or game in anyway).
However there is one sticking point, and that is closing for sex without entering into a longer term relationship, as I am worried as to her reaction to the many scars on my chest and back. These aren't sexy scars, but rather very definite surgical scars. What makes matters worse is medically I will also have an almost heart shaped stomach (which just looks odd)
The option is of course leave your top on, but this also feels weird for me. Any thoughts on how to explain this or whether I even should?