If this is a tl;dr for you, just skip to the questions at the bottom. Thanks.
How long does it take to get good at having sex?
So here's the deal. My game is tight. I can open girls with no problem. I am good looking and funny, so attraciton comes easy. I have gotten great at escalating kino, and from my sales experience, creating a connection with girls is easy.
Then we get into the bed. My confidence drops. Despite the fact that I have a tight game, I am bad in bed. I have had sex with 6 different girls, and all of them but 2 were only 1 time. 1 of the other 2 was a girlfriend of mine, and I was so scared of doing bad in bed with her that I avoided sex and made BS excuses. You can only imagine what this did to this poor girl's self esteem.
When I get hot girls and make out with them, get day 2s and stuff, I always cop out and make bs excuses to avoid sex. Most of my field reports I've ever written here that ended in sex actually ended with me pretending to be too drunk to have sex. And it eventually becomes obvious that my confidence doesn't extend to the bedroom. I've been involved in game for a long time, and it's really fucking with my head now that I can do everything but the goal.
Now, it's getting to the point where it's affecting my game. When I go approach, the last failed sex session where I busted in 2 minutes comes to mind. When I'm making out with her, on the back of my and I'm thinking "Yeah but I can't make her come".
Recently, I was with a gorgeous British girl, and got her in bed. I banged her for about 2 minutes and came. I told her I was just tired. The next time we met up I had sex with her again and went soft right off the bat. I told her I just hadn't had sex in a while, and she answered that with an incredible blowjob that got me hard enough to have sex. We had sex for like 4 minutes before I busted again. I gave another lame ass excuse. We then woke up at like 3 in the morning randomly and had sex again...and once again it took me forever to get it up, and when I finally did, I actually lasted about 10 minutes, which wasn't too bad I guess.
She broke things off with me the next day, and it's obviously because I was insecure about being bad at sex. I feel like the difference between me being some charismatic guy that burns out a lot and legitimately being on some of the top PUA's level is simply not being good in bed.
So here are a few questions I'd like answered.
-How long does it take once you start having sex regularly to get good at it?
-To what extent should I tell girls I am bad in bed?
-How the hell do I get a girl who is experienced and just wants good sex to be patient enough with me while I develop my stamina and skill?