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    "27 in the last 15 minutes, you?"


    "The mind only acts as an enemy for those who do not control it."

    You only lose what you cling to. -Buddha

    Here's how I see it:

    Men act, women react. Don't take the woman's role.

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    Count relationships, everything else is debatable. In your 20s, 7-15 is a good number to work with. If she's never been in a LTR and she's in her 30s-40s, her number could be in the hundreds. If it comes up and they tell me when their relationships were, how old they were, I'm good at coming close to their numbers, esp. when they tell me about wild times and how long their dates would last.

    Just go "funny, I was going to ask you the same thing." (how many women she slept with)

    Gentlemen never tell. Neither do ladies, not unless you have a really good friendship and can talk openly about anything without upsetting each other.

    But what also happens is that when girls find out you did more than conventional sex, and it's something she's been thinking about doing, if she finds out you already did it, might not want to. Or maybe she feels there's this one thing she does only with guys she feels completely in love with - it always varies, but there's usually one thing she saves for relationships. Be very careful, and leave it as "tried it once and it didn't go well at all." Now she feels she's got something to give you that she wouldn't do for anyone else, because she sees it as special, and because you didn't go "been there, done that", can give the impression that she's the greatest sex you've ever had.

    The more experiences a woman has, the less she feels like talking about numbers.

    Saying you don't know comes across as being drunk when you got laid, saying "it was a while ago, vague memories of a summer romance here, and an ice cream counter girl there, and the 2 relationships I was in." You remember just enough but keeping the details kind of vague will help.

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    If the exaggerated banter replies (I'm a virgin, I've lost count, About 700, I'm a priest) don't satisfy her and she corners me with, "Seriously, how many?", I flip the switch and say something like, "That's no question to ask a gentleman!" with firmness.

    There comes a time when you have to be firm and stand up to a woman you are attracted to and to me, this is an example of such a moment.
    Je fais du progrès.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol_Invictus View Post
    If the exaggerated banter replies (I'm a virgin, I've lost count, About 700, I'm a priest) don't satisfy her and she corners me with, "Seriously, how many?", I flip the switch and say something like, "That's no question to ask a gentleman!" with firmness.

    There comes a time when you have to be firm and stand up to a woman you are attracted to and to me, this is an example of such a moment.
    Or you could use the serious line "Look, I'm having fun, but I find it disrespectful you keep on asking me that question."

    I'm pretty sure an instructor said that, I forget which one, though. It's a charm.
    "The mind only acts as an enemy for those who do not control it."

    You only lose what you cling to. -Buddha

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    Men act, women react. Don't take the woman's role.

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    I just say "seven" and shrug like this: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

    If they prod any further I change the topic.

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    Start counting the fingers on your hands and saying out loud "one, two, three, four, five..." Then look at her and laugh. "I lost count. Stop being so cute and distracting me like that!"

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    Someone once said to me: There is only one thing you have to lie about, the number of woman you've slept with.

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    "A gentleman never tells, and a lady never asks"

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    Quote Originally Posted by harry_balzonia View Post
    "A gentleman never tells, and a lady never asks"
    There are no ladies and gentlemen anymore. It's Jersey Shore out there now.
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/141465-why-you-need-quit-porn-now.html

    Women have two types of toys: teddy bears and vibrators. Teddy bears are for when they are emotional and want to watch romcoms, and vibrators for when they want to get off. What toy are you?

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    Remember the Rule of Three:

    If you ask a girl how many dudes she's slept with, multiply her answer times three for the real number.

    When asking a man how many women he's been with, divide by three for the real number.

    **

    Personally, I try to dodge/deflect this question.

    "No, ladies first, how many men have YOU been with?"

    "Since we got here, ummmm 17!" (Works for public locations)

    In a relationship, when it comes time to give what is presumed to be the true number, I find 11 to be a believable number... because I know better than to EVER let a woman know how many came before her.
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/141465-why-you-need-quit-porn-now.html

    Women have two types of toys: teddy bears and vibrators. Teddy bears are for when they are emotional and want to watch romcoms, and vibrators for when they want to get off. What toy are you?

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