So I'm new to sex. Brought a girl to my bed for the first time 3 nights ago. Using the technique described in the sticky thread about best way to eat pussy, I'm pretty sure this girl had a fine time. I also fingered her to a second round and discovered heavy nipple licking produces great pleasure for her too.
New to Sex - Please Her But Cant Get Hard
Problem is I never got hard. Ives read several cases of this and chalk it up to anxiety. Yes I view porn about 1 or 2 times a week and masturbate to it so I got it...that affects my Psyche. No more porn.
I had this same girl over for dinner last night and we had another go at it. This time I was half hard while employing the same tactics. We were at it for a couple hours. I'm pretty sure she came 2-3 times between my fingers, tongue working on her clit, and she even tensed up pretty hard while I was working on her nipples.
I have yet to penetrate her because I simply can't get it up. She fondled my dick some but nothing else. She's pretty shy and I'm thinking I'll need to gently guide her to blowing me so I can get it up.
We laid naked together chatting for an hour or two afterwards so she seems really comfortable with me. She has said nothing about my limp dick but it's seriously causing me mental stress. I've said nothing to her either.
How do you guys suggest I rid myself of this anxiety?