Sex with a 25 yo virgin
Not sure if anybody's had this problem before, or whether it's been posted up somewhere else already. I've tried having a search but there's too many posts to sift through!
Anyway, I have been going out with a girl for a few months now, who I really like. She is my first serious girlfriend in 3 years, not through lack of trying, but because I've been enjoying my time as a single guy in his 20s, and now that I'm ready to settle down, I've finally met a girl who I think I can settle with.
A big problem, however, is that though I have plenty of experience with girlfriends and sex, she doesn't. In fact, she's 25 (I'm 27) and I'm her first boyfriend, the last guy she kissed before me was 4 years ago, and she's never had sex before. I'll also note that she's not ugly at all and has loads of guys hitting on her all the time (I'd give her a 9), plus she's not religious.
So I'm not really sure what to do, or whether there's in fact anything I can do? Considering that she's still a virgin by choice, does her way of thinking mean that I just have to wait and continue to be patient, as she gets more comfortable with me and the idea of sex? When I ask her about it, she keeps saying that "she's training me" and I ask what for, and she makes some random comment like "she's training me to be aware of my self" or some other floozy stuff. I don't want to push it too much (but I do raise it regularly) because she'll start thinking that all I care about it sex, like the hundreds of men that she's already rejected.
Any advice would be helpful! I've seriously considered ditching this girl due to her lack of experience; I don't want to have to "train her" and put up with antics that teenage girls grow out of after their first relationships. At the same time, I really like her and can see a lot of long-term potential with her too.