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Discuss Why you need to quit Porn. NOW. at the Sex within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; ***Update*** Ok so I posted a lil ago and after watching that vid I realized ...

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    ***Update***

    Ok so I posted a lil ago and after watching that vid I realized it was true. So after about 6 days of no jerkin and no porn, wow did things come back. My girl and I had two whole days alone with each other, and we must have gone at it four times minimum a day. Here is the kicker, at one point after being rogered properly she said to me "Baby lets do whatever you want, I so want to fuck you in a threesome"

    Great thread it is all solid advice, lose the porn guys, it is so not worth it.



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    8.5 months clean here. Even now, I still can't resist finding pics of some hotties on the internet, usually images that are only PG-13 rated, and never anything more than a bit of nudity. Used to watch porn about 4 times a week, I tried quitting 3 or 4 times before and never lasted more than 2 months. I feel that this is my last stand, and hopefully I'll make it to the one year mark and the desire will be all downhill from there.

    It sucks that even 3 to 4 months in, your craving will probably be just as intense as your first week of abstaining from porn, but I think I can offer some words of slight wisdom to help some of you out. The littlest things you see on TV, or even seeing a hot girl out in public can fire up the urge. DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT! Don't allow yourself to debate the pros and cons of breaking your commitment. Just do anything you can to clear your mind or change your mood, and eventually you'll be glad you did. And if you ever slip back into the habit (even in the slightest way) admit your mistake and recommit to a porn-free life.
    I hated the movie too.

    --Cordially
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    I've stopped for about 3 weeks now. Longest I've ever not watched. It's crazy I'm in a total mindfuck it's great. Random chicks seem soooo much hotter to me and seems like it's decreasing my AA...

    I never thought of quitting I just thought I should take a break. I think I may be extending this break for a while because I see this re-framing me properly...

    Let's see where this takes me.

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    In my experience it's easier to stop choking the chicken for a few weeks when you are actually getting some in real life. It's ever so much harder (tee hee) to stop masturbating during a dry spell. So that's motivation to forget AA and just go for it.

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    Jerking it just once a week actually has some science to it according to athlete and medical studies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kokos22 View Post
    Jerking it just once a week actually has some science to it according to athlete and medical studies.
    can u share?

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    This past "No Fapping February" was rough on the first week or so... but after that, you realize how much you don't need it. THAT was the first time i've ever turned on the "Google Safesearch" option since its invention lol.
    Caution: The above post may contain ridiculous amounts of sarcasm. The following quote, however, contains none.

    God was showing off when he made me

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    I quit about a month and a half ago. And it's not like quitting cigarettes or booze. If you understand what it's doing to you, and I think it's pretty freakin' easy to quit. As soon as I realized it was CAUSING boner problems with real live girls??? Dude, no brainer.

    Let me tell you how I got here in the first place. A couple months back, I hook up with this girl who has like.... the BEST ass/pussy I've ever seen in real life, just flawless. And I can BARELY keep it up with her. I can GET it up, but when we're having sex, 10 minutes in I start flying about half staff. I'm a boob man, but still this ass is ALL-TIME. I should have no problems. I'm 37 years old, which is OLD for an internet pickup forum, but not old overall. I'm not a 70 year old man, I shouldn't be having ED, especially not with a girl this hot. I don't smoke. I eat healthy. I don't drink. I am in the BEST shape of my life TODAY. Better than I was at 25, or 18. Today at 37 I'm in PEAK physical condition. There's no reason for this.

    I started thinking somehow the porn MAY be causing it, so I did some research, found this thread, then found the yourbrainonporn.com site, spent hours watching all the videos and reading everything I could, totally opened my mind until I was like "holy shit man OF COURSE it's the porn!" Of course! How did I not see that??

    So I quit. I decided to stop porn, whacking it, everything. I was so damn horny, not craving porn really, I just needed to come and take some pressure off the valve.

    After a week, I couldn't take it anymore and whacked it but NOT TO PORN. I just used my imagination and thought of some girl I've been working on but haven't closed yet. I decided the PORN is the problem, not whacking it. The porn is the UNNATURAL part. I bet cavemen whacked it when their stupid cavewomen weren't in the mood, but they didn't use porn. I decided it's the porn, the unlimited variety and images that is damaging to your brain and desensitizes you not whacking it.

    So from there on out, still no porn but I'd whack it whenever I needed to. Which worked out to about once a day, maybe a little less.

    Let me tell you how DRAMATICALLY things have changed. I have RAGING boners wake me up in the middle of the night every night now. That wasn't happening before. I have completely become REsensitized, not DEsensitized. I used to go out to the clubs and the 9s and 10s were doing it for me and everything else was mehhhh. Now the 7s are doing it for me.

    I appreciate all the LITTLE THINGS. A girl was leaned over in the post office and I could see down her shirt and got SO turned on. That wasn't happening when I was using porn daily. I'm a total boob man, but I'm looking at legs and ass in real life a lot more now.

    There have been a couple days, certainly not EVERY day, but a couple days out in daygame in my life where I swear I am just giving off some sort of VIBE that is attractive to women, something I had to work and work and work for before. I had one day in particular where everywhere I went girls were smiling at me and I EFFORTLESSLY opened and flirted. I just fully had my mojo back. I'd love if this STUCK and become permanent. And maybe it will! It's only been 1 1/2 months after all. I've definitely had way LESS social anxiety overall since quitting porn. This is HUGE. HUGE.

    2 weeks ago I took home an hb7/8. Hot ENOUGH, but certainly not banging, didn't have the big fake double-Ds I like. Just a hot enough girl. And guys it was an UNBELIEVABLE difference. NO boner issues at all. I got hard from KISSING her, just the idea that I was going to have a girl naked soon was doing it for me. We had sex, then 30 minutes later we did again. Even putting the condom on didn't slow me down. You know how much UNSAFE sex I've had in my life because I knew the condom might kill my boner? Too much. The recharge rate was HUGELY shortened. With that girl with the perfect ass, 2 HOURS later and I wasn't ready to go again. But with this much less hot girl 30 minutes and I'm chomping at the bit for round 2.

    IT IS THE PORN.

    Quit now! Quit for the sake of your sex life.

    The biggest benefit of all ironically is that it LOWERS your physical standards. I love hb9s and 10s and hope I get to fuck lots of them. But it shouldn't take a nearly FLAWLESS girl just to get turned on. A "cute" girl should be enough! I was seriously limiting myself by only going for the hottest, bitchiest girls. And it was PORN that caused that! I literally couldn't get turned on by most of the "cute" girls.

    How many 9s/10s are even out there on any given night?? How many 7s are there?? I only even SEE a 10 once every couple of months. I live in Orange County, CA so I see a couple 9s every night, which is awesome. But I see 7s and 8s by the THOUSANDS. Having MORE girls that turn you on is a good thing.

    One of the other huge benefits is I've got NOTHING to be ashamed of. There's nothing to hide on my computer anymore. I can nullify the pact I had with my roommate to destroy each other's laptops if one of us were killed before his MOTHER showed up to collect it. There's nothing to hide anymore. What do you think THAT does to your inner game? You think you MIGHT be a little more confident around women when you're not repressing SHAME? Fuck yes you will.

    It's the porn. Quit and reap the benefits. You're not missing ANYTHING. What you want is sex with real life girls, not sex with your computer screen. And if you go my route and still allow yourself to whack to your imagination, there's really very little you're giving up but EVERYTHING to gain.

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    Roly, thank you for sharing - this is the motivation I needed right now. No more porn from now.

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    Roly I just fucking love you man, thanks for that really. I'm gonna quit for life starting today, nothing can stop me baby. FUCK PORN DON'T MESS WITH Y COCK!

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