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    How long after quitting porn (and greatly reducing how many times I masturbate) will I start to see effects?

    I ask because there is a girl I've been saying and have had a hard time getting it up - and I'm attributing a part of that problem to over-use of porn. I am seeing her next week and could really use a boost in my desire for her so I could keep a fucking erection this time. So will I see effects in about a week?



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    Quote Originally Posted by PumpingIron View Post
    How long after quitting porn (and greatly reducing how many times I masturbate) will I start to see effects?

    I ask because there is a girl I've been saying and have had a hard time getting it up - and I'm attributing a part of that problem to over-use of porn. I am seeing her next week and could really use a boost in my desire for her so I could keep a fucking erection this time. So will I see effects in about a week?
    The web site in question speaks of 6 weeks for a full mental reboot. Unfortunately, the site speaks of a "cold turkey" period within the 6 weeks that will make it seem that a man's potency and cock size has decreased. It says not to worry and to not go back to porn "to see if everything still works".

    6 weeks or 42 days is suspiciously close to the 40 days of Lent, the 40 day fasts of Jesus and Moses and the 40 days that Noah was in the ark. Something tells me that the ancient texts see 40 days as the time it takes to change one's reality with good habits.

    You could tell your paramour that you want to try more foreplay and oral for a while to take the performance anxiety off your membrum virile. Just don't start avoiding her.
    Je fais du progrès.

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    Is looking at bikini photos and jacking it ok?

    What about jacking it in the shower?

    I "quit" but still occasionally jack it.

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    this is good shit. Ill try it out and see how it goes, could be the answer to my problems. cheers

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    Jacking off is normal.

    Quitting porn is about bringing your sexual expectations back to reality. Softcore, swimwear/lingerie catalogs are based on images most men see when having sex. Transsexual midgets shitting in each others' mouths is not an image normally viewed by male eyes when he picks up a girl at a bar/club.

    However, if you eliminate porn altogether, you'll learn to get excited by those common images when you see them in real life, so I say eliminate all porn for maximum functionality.
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/141465-why-you-need-quit-porn-now.html

    Women have two types of toys: teddy bears and vibrators. Teddy bears are for when they are emotional and want to watch romcoms, and vibrators for when they want to get off. What toy are you?

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    I don't really read this board often but i want to share my own struggles with E.D that caused me to not being able to remain erect for the full duration of intercourse. usually I'm hard for about 10-15 seconds.

    I quit porn for a month, including not jacking off and i was horny as fuck. I walk down the streets and see random women 5/10,6/10 and start to desire for them. However when i have sex again, the ED came back, not from PORN but from ANXIETY that resulted from the ED experiences that was caused by porn.

    From this point on, i knew it was all psychological because i still get massive morning erections. I then got cialis from my doctor and everything is working again. i get monstrous erections just by looking at a naked girl in front of me. In a way the cialis that was meant to fix me physically, has instead helped me achieved an erection psychologically. I now feel less anxious every-time i have sex, with or without cialis.

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    Sometimes a little medicinal kick in the pants is all you need to get your mojo back. That's what it took to shatter mine several years ago.
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/141465-why-you-need-quit-porn-now.html

    Women have two types of toys: teddy bears and vibrators. Teddy bears are for when they are emotional and want to watch romcoms, and vibrators for when they want to get off. What toy are you?

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    Raquel Welch: the ‘era of porn’ has ‘annihilated’ men

    As one of America’s most revered sex symbols, she might not be the first celebrity to jump to mind as a crusader against pornography. But Raquel Welch, who rose to icon status as the beauty in the leather bikini from the 1966 movie One Million Years BC, told Men’s Health Magazine in an interview posted online March 8 that today’s sex-saturated culture had sapped the meaning out of sex, and damaged countless men through the pornography industry, which she called “an exploitation of the poor male’s libidos.”
    http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/raq...nnihilated-men
    Je fais du progrès.

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    Can we get this thread stickied? (No pun intended)
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/141465-why-you-need-quit-porn-now.html

    Women have two types of toys: teddy bears and vibrators. Teddy bears are for when they are emotional and want to watch romcoms, and vibrators for when they want to get off. What toy are you?

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