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    About to have my first threesome, tips and advice.

    In a week or so, me and my now GF are going to have a full out, no-holds bar threesome on tape with a f-buddy of mines. I have plenty of ideas of whats gonna go down, and I have no plans on stopping anywhere short.

    But for those who have had threesomes, what do you recommend? Some awesome potential in this and I can use some tips.



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    I recommend going full on out Animal style on them Im Jelly

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    Quote Originally Posted by creyente7 View Post
    I recommend going full on out Animal style on them Im Jelly
    Definately, a round 2 has to be in order. Fact is, with two girls and the endless positions, I'm going to need to go full out animal on them, being able to pound them out at full speed is a must for me. I considered jerking off before seeing them, but I don't want to take some steam out of it. I'll bust a few nuts the night before, and MAY use a sensitivity reducing condom. They weren't so bad in the past, I figure it'd be something for round 1. I'm also trying to find natural ways to really up my sex drive for the next week, supplementing with things like zinc are said to help so I'll look into that.

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    you should already be working out and looking after your body for an improved sex life. a week of zinc ain't gonna help you out. i wouldn't be concerned about blowing your load too soon, your primary concern is your mindset and behaviour during sex.

    Allow your girlfriend some control in the interaction. Make it her idea. Remember thats its a fantasy you sharing together.

    Make sure they are enjoying themselves, preferably making them both orgasm before you so that they become more compliant to do things for you. the reason also is it would be great to blow your load on both their faces together after they both sucked you off - they will be more willing to do this if they already had a good time AND if you have already come, you will have less cum to do this with - your first load will be the best

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    When you need time to cool down, have them fool around for a bit. Let them have their bit of girl action, it'll become more interesting. . . and they'll want to do it again

    If your lucky, you'll be too nervous to come quick

    Tip: invest in a dildo
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    I just had my first threesome recently. Some tips:

    1) Make each girl feel special at all times. You'll fall into roles. Is one needier that the other? Make out with her while the other goes down on you or bang her while the other kisses her. Which people are the givers and which are the receivers? If all goes naturally, you'll figure out who's who pretty fast. This is the most exciting part.
    2) Do these ladies know each other well? If not, give them the better part of the evening to do their girl thing. Let them bond as much as possible. If they like each other, the whole thing will work beautifully.
    3) Fall asleep in the nude with a girl on each side. For me, this was the most satisfying moment of my life.
    4) After a threesome, everything else in your life gets the volume turned down. Work, school and life will seem horrifically boring by comparison. Try and do it on a Friday so you have the weekend to mentally recuperate.
    5) You're filming it? That is intense! If I were you, I would watch the video once a day for the rest of my life and relive the dream.
    6) Enjoy it! You're going where few men have gone before and it sounds like you earned it! Congrats!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CardRunner View Post
    you should already be working out and looking after your body for an improved sex life. a week of zinc ain't gonna help you out. i wouldn't be concerned about blowing your load too soon, your primary concern is your mindset and behaviour during sex.

    Allow your girlfriend some control in the interaction. Make it her idea. Remember thats its a fantasy you sharing together.

    Make sure they are enjoying themselves, preferably making them both orgasm before you so that they become more compliant to do things for you. the reason also is it would be great to blow your load on both their faces together after they both sucked you off - they will be more willing to do this if they already had a good time AND if you have already come, you will have less cum to do this with - your first load will be the best
    Yeah, I've been through david shade and the sex god method, hell without going through that I wouldn't be having this threesome. So as far as the girls go, and making sure it all goes peachy, thats all fine. I moreso am looking for anything extra awesome that I may miss.

    Quote Originally Posted by kascore View Post
    I just had my first threesome recently. Some tips:

    1) Make each girl feel special at all times. You'll fall into roles. Is one needier that the other? Make out with her while the other goes down on you or bang her while the other kisses her. Which people are the givers and which are the receivers? If all goes naturally, you'll figure out who's who pretty fast. This is the most exciting part.
    2) Do these ladies know each other well? If not, give them the better part of the evening to do their girl thing. Let them bond as much as possible. If they like each other, the whole thing will work beautifully.
    3) Fall asleep in the nude with a girl on each side. For me, this was the most satisfying moment of my life.
    4) After a threesome, everything else in your life gets the volume turned down. Work, school and life will seem horrifically boring by comparison. Try and do it on a Friday so you have the weekend to mentally recuperate.
    5) You're filming it? That is intense! If I were you, I would watch the video once a day for the rest of my life and relive the dream.
    6) Enjoy it! You're going where few men have gone before and it sounds like you earned it! Congrats!
    This is what I'm talking about. Great stuff man, I'd highfive you if I could.

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    Well, mine was about 5 years ago now... but here are a few words of advice:

    -Show them close to the same amount of attention
    My threesome was with my ex-girlfriend at the time and her cousin. Her cousin was insanely hot(she was a model and then a stripper) and something new. Anyways, I paid more attention to her and my ex felt pretty shitty about it afterwards.
    -A little alcohol never hurt
    I had a bottle of whiskey on hand and it seemed to ease everyone's nerves a bit...I wouldn't take more than a couple of shots though
    -LMR
    I was getting some LMR at first from my ex's cousin, and I tried to logic her into. So then I just said fuck it and started messing around with my ex...and what do you know, the cousin jumped right in.
    -Tag Team BJ
    This was one thing I regretted not having them do. It sounds like it would be pretty awesome.

    Best of luck man, it's a great experience.

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    Definately with ya on the alcohol bit, I originally planned on it. Few shots of vodka and I know their gonna go at it as soon as they start kissing and get turned on.

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    The MOST IMPORTANT THING:

    As others have said, PAY THEM BOTH ATTENTION!

    Because if your GF feels like the FB is getting more attention than HER, you WILL HEAR about it LATER.

    She'll bring it up in an argument, she'll be comparing the amount of time you gave the other girl to how much time you spent on her, etc.

    TRUST ME.

    She'll be counting the SECONDS you're inside girl #2.

    But anyway, aside from that, it should be fun.

    I'm gonna give you the things you ASKED for now.

    Here are all possible ideas (even things that may seem over-the-top or "too much" just in case, dude, since I don't know your preference)

    (warning, my language here will slightly graphic, but we are talking about sex here. My apologies ahead of time.)


    1: Have one girl suck your balls while the other one sucks your dick.
    2: Eat one girl while fucking the other.
    3: Fuck one girl while she eats/kisses the other.
    4: Have one girl lick on your chest (or kiss you) as the other goes down on you.
    5: Toe sucking (if you're into that sort of thing) just to go ALL OUT. If not, no biggie. Just covering all bases.
    6: Slowly fuck one girl's face while the other girl goes down on her.

    Bonus Tip: Have one girl suck you off RIGHT AFTER pulling out of the other girl's vagina (I know you said you're using a condom, but just in case you DON'T, this is a FANTASTIC idea.) You'll LOVE it.

    You can even have your girlfriend HELP you make the fuck buddy suck your dick (like you've seen in pornos) It's BETTER this way because the girlfriend WON'T feel "left out." Instead, she will feel like you guys are a TEAM, and this OTHER girl is the "outsider", rather than a "threat" to your relationship. She won't be so jealous if she feels that way.

    Hope this helps, dude.

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