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  1. Gf wants to use vibrator on her own

    I bought my girlfriend a little vibrator for me to use on her when I'm with her. I got really angry, however, when I asked if she would like to use it on her own and she said yes.

    I don't understand why. I am giving her great sex that she has never experienced before. I am the first person to give her an orgasm and she is completely in love with me. We have sex all the time, sometimes more than ten times a week.

    So why would she want to use it without me. I feel inadequate like I am not satisfying her.

    this is coming from a girl who says she has not masturbated in years.



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    That's some major insecurity talking. Coming from a girl, a vibrator can NEVER compete with a man. It's two very different experiences. She's not gonna lose attraction for you just cuz she has a vibrator. It's normal and healthy for a girl to explore her own sexuality, with and without a partner. If anything, you should see it as a good thing because exploring things on her own will put her in touch with her sexuality and make sex better for the two of you when you are together. I mean how would you feel if a chick told you "now that we're in a relationship, you can only get sex from me. Say goodbye to masturbating and to your porn collection!" You should be glad she's enjoying your gift.

    Rogue

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    I will cosign for Rogue.

    A sandwich always tates better when someone else makes it.

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    You are hugely overreacting.

  5. Quote Originally Posted by lburnham View Post
    I bought my girlfriend a little vibrator for me to use on her when I'm with her. I got really angry, however, when I asked if she would like to use it on her own and she said yes.
    Congratulations! You seem to have found a girl that has a healthy sexuality, is confident, open and wants to experience things both with you and by herself and if you just work a bit on your insecurities, I'm sure you'll be able to see why this is a great thing and appreciate it :-)

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    You are wrong to be mad, it makes her self conscious about the sexuality she just revealed to you. You should be encouraging that kind of thing. Would you never jerk off unless she had her hand on your dick? Is jerking off the same as pussy?
    You are looking insecure and pushing her to want/need to hide her needs and desires from you in order to avoid conflict and protect your delicate little ego. Better get that shit handled bud.

  7. Quote Originally Posted by MuGGzy View Post
    You are wrong to be mad, it makes her self conscious about the sexuality she just revealed to you. You should be encouraging that kind of thing. Would you never jerk off unless she had her hand on your dick? Is jerking off the same as pussy?
    You are looking insecure and pushing her to want/need to hide her needs and desires from you in order to avoid conflict and protect your delicate little ego. Better get that shit handled bud.
    best post ever.

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    Buy a fleshlight and get on with it.

  9. damn dude..maybe shes thinking about you when you're not around.

    Its going to replace you with this attitude.

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    hmmm perhaps stay clear of the black viabrators nextime and get a yellow one ..
    on a more serious note what you really have is a Quality Problem and its a problem that an afc would dream about.. remember that..

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