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    She's not bothered we aren't having sex

    I tried to have sex with my gf last night but she refused because it was in her house and she is worried her family will hear. I felt like I was almost begging for it because I wanted it so bad but she could restrain herself. She said "wednesday we will have hot sex" because we will be at my place (I live alone).

    But chatting to her today she said she couldn't get to mine, she has no transport, so she offered I come to her - which means NO SEX. I said sure, but then changed the date and said how about thursday. She asked who's place. So I said her place. The fact that also means NO SEX does not seem to bother her.

    I don't want to suggest my place because that is basically code for "I want to have sex" and I am sick of being the one to express wanting to do it.

    I am thinking about continually going over to hers until she asks whats up because she wants to have it.

    What do you guys think?



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    >>>>I don't want to suggest my place because that is basically code for "I want to have sex" and I am sick of being the one to express wanting to do it.

    Are you a man or a mouse???? For Gods sake, if you want to have sex with her, then get her into a situation where it is AT LEAST a practical option and take it from there. Once she's at your place you don't have to leap on her like a baboon!!!

    How old are you? You sound v. young to be asking this kind of question!!

    >>>I am thinking about continually going over to hers until she asks whats up because she wants to have it.

    This is so wrong. She will end up thinking you aren't that bothered about banging her - which believe me is a total turn off. Women expect men to want to have sex all the time. If they don't, they worry that they aren't attractive. A bit of pursuit is expected. You don't want her thinking its * just* about sex - but continually going over to her until she is forced to ask is too far the other way. What if she never does?

    >>>>But chatting to her today she said she couldn't get to mine, she has no transport, so she offered I come to her - which means NO SEX.

    Pay for a taxi for her is my advice. If you can't afford it, go without Starbucks or something for a few weeks!!

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    How did you get to her place? A cab? A bus? A car? Why didn't you just use that option to get her to yours.

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    i was in this situation, she closed her legs, stop with the sex, and start talking more. ignore it, just get her horny. dont ask for it.
    "Women are never disarmed by compliments. Men always are. That is the difference between the sexes."
    Oscar Wilde

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    It's simple. You don't make her 'gina tingle anymore.


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