Watching Hardcore Porn with Your Girlfriend

My girlfriend recently became very interested in my porn collection. She was telling me about all the times she used to tell her old boyfriends to go to a bar so she could watch pay-per-view porn and get herself off.

Now I have watched porn with girlfriends before but I have never felt entirely in my comfort zone doing this. This seems to be something that really gets this girl off so I want to do it right.

The following issues may seem like insignificant details but I think they’re important and was wondering what your recommendations might be:

My girl loves me talking dirty but gets really self-conscious when she does it herself; - probably why its one of her favourite turn-on’s. But when I talk dirty watching porn should I make the focus, “would you like me to do that to you?” or “How do you think that would feel?” or “can you imagine how that big dick must feel filling that girls wet pussy, imagine that dick in you” [I have no problem with my girl fantasising about other men, it’s just fantasy, I trust her and I am happy for her to feel safe and explore those fantasies with me].

Should I be watching her mostly, or the porn? When we have done this before she spends the majority of her time watching the porn while playing with herself, when she does look away, which is quite regularly, she looks me in the eye to see what I am doing, - where my attention is.

I guess I just need to find a strong frame to work from as a foundation when doing this and then I can take it from there. Any ideas on where that should start?

There is usually a point where I'll watch porn with the chick I'm seeing, just to get a feel for how kinky she's been in the past.

Pop in a porn, and see how strongly fixated she is on those images. When she is highly fixated, whisper in her ear with dirty talk -- If she doesn't dig the porn, you can both criticize it. If she's into it, make a mental note to try that with her; and talk about wanting to do that to her (several weeks in the future, when she has forgotten that you've watched it together, and doesn't know how you know that she likes it.)

==Romo

go get some movies with Sandra Romain in them, your GF will love it, Sandra is one foul mouthed insatiable lady and I bet is exactly how your girl WANTS to be but is scared to let it out.

As far as what you do, don't over think it. She is looking at you to make sure you are IN to it too cuz she will feel self conscious if you are looking bored. Just comment on shit like "wow thats a crazy position, I wonder if we could pull that off" or "holy shit he is screwing her brains out, she sure appears to like it though". If she escalates and starts getting dirtier you will have your que to do the same. She may simply not want to talk about it and just be getting in to the video and what she is doing to herself and the idea that she is doing this WITH you so just let it happen.

Originally Posted by MuGGzy

go get some movies with Sandra Romain in them, your GF will love it, Sandra is one foul mouthed insatiable lady and I bet is exactly how your girl WANTS to be but is scared to let it out.

Thanks, I'll get some of those, she looks hot.

My girl keeps asking me to put on threesome porn though.....

tube8.com that shit. Hahahaha your girlfriend sounds hot.

Actually, don't do a thing. Let her watch it. She sounds like she enjoys not just the sights but the sounds of it, too.

She's not fantasizing about the dudes.

I think what you want to do is going to distract her, but "is that what you want me to do to you" and "how do you think that would feel" is fine. But I have no problem letting her have her undivided attention on the porn flick.

If the girl I'm with is into porn like that I usually don't say much and just start messing around with her, touch her, maybe spread her legs open and do oral on her for a little bit, use toys on her if she's "feeling ripe" (always have a toy handy) but I usually don't have to say much.

Originally Posted by Taz1983

My girlfriend recently became very interested in my porn collection. She was telling me about all the times she used to tell her old boyfriends to go to a bar so she could watch pay-per-view porn and get herself off.

Now I have watched porn with girlfriends before but I have never felt entirely in my comfort zone doing this. This seems to be something that really gets this girl off so I want to do it right.

The following issues may seem like insignificant details but I think they’re important and was wondering what your recommendations might be:

My girl loves me talking dirty but gets really self-conscious when she does it herself; - probably why its one of her favourite turn-on’s. But when I talk dirty watching porn should I make the focus, “would you like me to do that to you?” or “How do you think that would feel?” or “can you imagine how that big dick must feel filling that girls wet pussy, imagine that dick in you” [I have no problem with my girl fantasising about other men, it’s just fantasy, I trust her and I am happy for her to feel safe and explore those fantasies with me].

Should I be watching her mostly, or the porn? When we have done this before she spends the majority of her time watching the porn while playing with herself, when she does look away, which is quite regularly, she looks me in the eye to see what I am doing, - where my attention is.

I guess I just need to find a strong frame to work from as a foundation when doing this and then I can take it from there. Any ideas on where that should start?

Originally Posted by MuGGzy

go get some movies with Sandra Romain in them, your GF will love it, Sandra is one foul mouthed insatiable lady and I bet is exactly how your girl WANTS to be but is scared to let it out.

As far as what you do, don't over think it. She is looking at you to make sure you are IN to it too cuz she will feel self conscious if you are looking bored. Just comment on shit like "wow thats a crazy position, I wonder if we could pull that off" or "holy shit he is screwing her brains out, she sure appears to like it though". If she escalates and starts getting dirtier you will have your que to do the same. She may simply not want to talk about it and just be getting in to the video and what she is doing to herself and the idea that she is doing this WITH you so just let it happen.

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i agree with this... she will totally feel self conscious if you're bored watching it..