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    Making Love vs Fucking vs sex- need women's input and men's input on this

    I've just read the book- Sex god method. I'd say the book is pretty good b/c it's DEVI model is $. Some parts of the book were downright messed up and weird- Father Daughter sex fantasy/slamming girl to a door/rape fantasy/calling a women a slut and whore. But I felt the book only dealt w/ "fucking" as opposed to making love. A product I've seen on "making love to a women" is "Nina Hartley's Guide to Making love to women:" it's by far one of the best videos on making love, as opposed to straight fucking and sex; it shows the psychological way to warm a woman up and how to talk to her (not in a misogynstic way, but in a complementing way to turn a woman on). The first part of the video was good, the instructional part, but the later parts are basically just a porn video, so I skipped them. I've also read "She comes First" and I have to say, that book's going to come in handy when I lose my virginity.

    1) What do you guys think the difference is btw making love, fucking, and sex?

    2) Are there any books on "making love to a women?" (that you've used and tested that ended being great for both you and your woman?)

    3)Of the 3, which do you guys/gals enjoy more?



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    Making love is sensual, fucking is sexual.

    Reading Henry Miller led me to reading Anais Nin, who was one of the first feminist writers, and she wrote about incest fantasies.

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    Depends on mood/situation. Of the 3 as a generalisation for me: Making love: Getting deeply immersed in the whole thing, moving from sensual (long build up/foreplay/psychological emotionally) to annimalistic and back, the more into it emotionally too, the better. However, depends - I'd leave the proper making love stuff more for a LTR or regular FB rather than a ONS. But the first time you sleep wth a new girl (with potential), lots of foreplay is good to get her turned on, as you will not have the same immersion level as for an LTR, the extra foreplay goes somewhat to make up for it (as stated in the SGM I believe).

    As sdnightfly says, making love is the more sensual act, more delicate, more exploration and far longer build up, wheras fucking is more immeadiate and rougher. Thats my 2 cents anyway.

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    calling her a slut/whore / slamming her against a door/wall - is gold.

    give it ago... you'll be suprised

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    Quote Originally Posted by tomjj1122 View Post
    What do you guys think the difference is btw making love, fucking, and sex?

    Of the 3, which do you guys/gals enjoy more?
    I think the terminology is redundant...it's just different ways of having sex. Whether the experience is more sensual or animalistic depends on the mood and setting. If you're having sex with a woman for the first time, and this isn't a wild girl you picked up from a bar, you probably want to make it more sensual. If it's a wild girl from a bar who's trying to pull your pants off, you probably want to go the animalistic route. In a relationship, you should alternate both for a satisfying sex life. I love the sensual candles-and-massage sex as much as I do the naughty ass-spanking hair-pulling wall-slamming kind, just depends on the situation.

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    I've just read the book- Sex god method. I'd say the book is pretty good b/c it's DEVI model is $. Some parts of the book were downright messed up and weird- Father Daughter sex fantasy/slamming girl to a door/rape fantasy/calling a women a slut and whore
    This is not uncommon by any means. On occasion or whatever some may prefer this is a good stress reliever, good way to forget about problems in life, or just wanting to have good dominate, dirty, fun sex!!!

    I've also read "She comes First" and I have to say, that book's going to come in handy when I lose my virginity.
    Rough sex isn't for everyone. Nor is being intimate. Just gotta go with the flow. Communicating each others needs is what makes a good sex life.

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    I think you were taking the info presented in the "DEVI" Model a little too literal. Part of the "Variety" IS being slow and sensual and romantic one night whispering nice shit in her ear and making her feel like shes the only woman in the world right then, and then the next night railing her brains out and telling her she's your personal fuck doll as you bounce her head off the headboard. They want ALL OF THAT. You will be able to tell what she wants/needs pretty fast. When she starts kissing your neck and ears and touching you soft, it's romance time, when she bites your neck and digs her fingernails into your back/arm/ass, it's time to put in a good workout.

    The FANTASY filth is just that, a fantasy, if you can be secure enough and have no hangups when you get into that type of play, that will be huge. What happens a LOT is that women DO have these fantasies, and they tell some guy they want to try this or that, and he is an insecure shit, or a prude in general, and he reacts like she just said she wanted to try some 2G1C action, and then she gets ashamed and stuffs that away and will never voice it again, or at least not for a long time and DEFF not EVER with YOU.
    So, if she tells you she wants to call you "Daddy" and "get spanked like a bad girl", well, you start limbering up that wrist brotha and make her SING, she will worship you later.

    The KEY is making her FEEL like you are paying attention and actually interested in her reactions and how things feel to her, NEVER be in a hurry (unless its a "quickie") to get to the humpin'. the more of those books you read the better, my "book learnin" has ALWAYS paid off, just don't appear to be "following a script" and being all analytical about it. You want to appear that you know EXACTLY what you are doing and any and every reaction she has is exactly what you expected and wanted, if you act like a master in the bedroom, she will think you are.

    Plus..... and this is GOLD...... She will TELL HER FRIENDS!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuGGzy View Post
    I think you were taking the info presented in the "DEVI" Model a little too literal. Part of the "Variety" IS being slow and sensual and romantic one night whispering nice shit in her ear and making her feel like shes the only woman in the world right then, and then the next night railing her brains out and telling her she's your personal fuck doll as you bounce her head off the headboard. They want ALL OF THAT. You will be able to tell what she wants/needs pretty fast. When she starts kissing your neck and ears and touching you soft, it's romance time, when she bites your neck and digs her fingernails into your back/arm/ass, it's time to put in a good workout.

    The FANTASY filth is just that, a fantasy, if you can be secure enough and have no hangups when you get into that type of play, that will be huge. What happens a LOT is that women DO have these fantasies, and they tell some guy they want to try this or that, and he is an insecure shit, or a prude in general, and he reacts like she just said she wanted to try some 2G1C action, and then she gets ashamed and stuffs that away and will never voice it again, or at least not for a long time and DEFF not EVER with YOU.
    So, if she tells you she wants to call you "Daddy" and "get spanked like a bad girl", well, you start limbering up that wrist brotha and make her SING, she will worship you later.

    The KEY is making her FEEL like you are paying attention and actually interested in her reactions and how things feel to her, NEVER be in a hurry (unless its a "quickie") to get to the humpin'. the more of those books you read the better, my "book learnin" has ALWAYS paid off, just don't appear to be "following a script" and being all analytical about it. You want to appear that you know EXACTLY what you are doing and any and every reaction she has is exactly what you expected and wanted, if you act like a master in the bedroom, she will think you are.

    Plus..... and this is GOLD...... She will TELL HER FRIENDS!
    Thanks MuGGzy, that answer was good. Thanks to everyone else for the input also.

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