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    How not to Cum to early !

    I'm 19 and have been having sex for a while now but really not lasting the longest.. i think the longest i've lasted was 25 mins.
    Sometimes i can't even handle the foreplay & than i cum before the sex./
    My girlfriend wants to go down on me before we have sex; i love head but i end up blowing my load before we have sex. We have sex and only last 10 mins or so because i cum. Than i end up having a hard time getting it up for the 2nd time around.
    Any solutions please ! I need advice on what to do ..



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    Quote Originally Posted by soccerfreak24 View Post
    I'm 19 and have been having sex for a while now but really not lasting the longest.. i think the longest i've lasted was 25 mins.
    Sometimes i can't even handle the foreplay & than i cum before the sex./
    My girlfriend wants to go down on me before we have sex; i love head but i end up blowing my load before we have sex. We have sex and only last 10 mins or so because i cum. Than i end up having a hard time getting it up for the 2nd time around.
    Any solutions please ! I need advice on what to do ..
    Accept that you do cum quickly - it's NOT a contest!. You'll be interested to know that a lot of girls do NOT want some marathon fucking session - they get sore and bored.

    I think you just need to switch to foreplay again after you cum and concentrate on giving her a good time. You don't need your dick to do foreplay and give her head.

    Any DECENT girlfriend will be understanding and do whatever it takes so you can have multiple sessions of sex.

    Realistically at 19 you should be able to recover after each time you cum pretty quickly - I remember that age and I was able to cum 6 or 7 times a day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by skypirate1965 View Post
    Accept that you do cum quickly - it's NOT a contest!. You'll be interested to know that a lot of girls do NOT want some marathon fucking session - they get sore and bored.

    I think you just need to switch to foreplay again after you cum and concentrate on giving her a good time. You don't need your dick to do foreplay and give her head.

    Any DECENT girlfriend will be understanding and do whatever it takes so you can have multiple sessions of sex.

    Realistically at 19 you should be able to recover after each time you cum pretty quickly - I remember that age and I was able to cum 6 or 7 times a day.
    I didnt know you could give girls head! Haha on a lighter note, I've suffered the same problem, and I'll either pregame(jerk off about 30mins to an hour beforehand) or just concentrate on anything else besides blowing your load. It takes me a lot of mental strength to do, but I can usually manage it.

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    I'll stick my neck out and say that at 19 if your recovery is slow and you cannot fuck multiple times in a 3 hour period then you should see a doctor! I'm in my 40s out of condition and still do it ...so draw your own conclusions!

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    I think everyone is different. I've never been able to go back to back no matter how sexy the girl is.

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    Everyone is different. There's a lot of stuff you can do to take your mind off of it. Pornstars have a few tricks. One is to roll your eyes back in your head and press your tongue firmly against the roof of your mouth. I think just focusing on doing this will take your mind off of the cumming thing. Its really all mental, you're just psyching yourself out. Also, if you're familiar with the kegel exercise (look it up on google if you're not), you should be doing these as a mini workout all the time. This will strengthen your PC muscle (again look it up if need be) and allow you to hold off an oncoming orgasm. Its basically the muscle you flex when you stop your pee mid-stream. Do that often too, as its the same basic function of stopping an ejaculation. When you feel yourself coming close to an orgasm, you squeeze as hard as you can and hold it and the cumming urge will go away.

    Sometimes I'll try and think of all the players on my favorite football/baseball team. Whatever. Combining these little muscle flexion exercises with the mental aspect is really all you need to last long.

    Good luck!

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    I'm on your girlfriends team. Let her blow you. Finish up, and relax for a bit. Cuddle and rub her off, make out, and have extended foreplay while you recover. She'll love it because your not rushing at all.

    If that's not enough time, have a quickie before the party, and longer screw after.

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    im 18, and i read sex god-method by daniel rose. Teaches you how to last longer etc.. Basically you should have a clear mind when having sex. Sounds easier than it is. Read that book problems will be gone. Plus if i do cum early then usually i recovery and just put on another condom and go for 4 rounds. That way it lasts longer

    also if you keep switching positions, go slower then speed up then slow down, get thicker condoms then you should last longer
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