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Might have sex, don't want to drink but we are going to a bar what shall I do?
I don't want a drink because I want sex and any bit of alcohol stops me from getting hard. She already knows this so if I don't drink she will think I just want to screw her.
I do though since I have known her for 2 months nearly and we have not got around to having sex. It's now or never I think...and I CAN'T have alcohol. What could I say or do? I mean I want her to have a good time with me and last time she saw me I was sober as a judge.
Screw up ;]
Originally Posted by zookmaster
Oh , srry honey dont think we can go to the bar tonight cuz *Insert really gd excuse* , wanna pop by the *new location without alcohol* instead ?
Point is , BOUNCE out of it ;]
Sympathy For the Devil .
Thing is...she is driving lol.
I go near her place so have no idea where we are going.
1st - If you don't plan on drinking, don't go to a bar.
2nd - If a drop of alcohol prevents you from getting hard, then I think its all in your head, cause normally you have to have quite a lot to prevent erections. So maybe you had one bad experience where where you drank and had performance anxiety and now you blame it on alcohol.
3rd - You're not getting laid anyway. You probably have oneitis, 2 months???
Well the first date she wanted to get laid so I don't get what you mean. We were both drunk and I just ended up eating her out. Next date she was avoiding the sex.
I've been here and man it's sad when you have whiskey dick. Here is what you do buddy. You drink with her at the start of it. Eventually alcohol wears off. So towards start making the move.
Just casually sip one or two beers. Everyone gets whiskey dick from time to time, but one or two drinks at the start of the night wont do shit.
this is a easy solution as I rarely ever drink but still don't want to be that guy at the venue with a glass of water in his hand.
So, do this...
1.) Order a glass of water and request a slice or two of lemon/lime in it. That way, it will appear as a gin/vodka and tonic.
2.) Order a soda, but request it in a smaller glass and (again) w/ a slice of lemon in it. Then go to grab a stirer and you now have what appears as a coke and rum.
Let's back up..how does she know that if you drink you can't get hard? did you a) tell her or b) demonstrate that fact. If she already knows that means you came close enought to have sex that she knows it..so fuck it..just tell her "I don't want to drink because I get whisky dick..remember that time?" If you told her this..then you are blown out anyway. Im not sure I get what is going on here. As said above whiskey dick happens to everybody. But just don't let this chick treat you ike a tool.
He already mentioned that he tried to have sex with her before, while drunk.
Originally Posted by Mister Mojo
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