Thread: Do most women really like having their clothes ripped?

When it comes to getting women into bed my two women friends tell me that they love it when a guy rips their clothes off, in the moment, without asking. I asked them if it's a guy they just meet that night and they said definitely. They said that most women might not like that though.

So I asked around some more and they all said they do. So it seems most do, but don't realize that most other women also like it. Is this true, or will a lot of women be turned off. I kinda feel guilty and vandalizing about ripping clothes if they won't like it.

Dude, every woman is different. Find out if she likes stuff like that BEFORE you do it.

Rogue

Fortunately I have no idea, but thanks for posting because I think this is going to make a terrific opinion opener.

Oh and boring answer that's probably true = ripping clothes off is a level of passion that the vast majority of chumps don't give women, and I'm sure at least a portion of a woman's mind is dedicated to sitting around all day fantasizing about that kind of sexual encounter. However, ripping a $200 cashmere sweater off a hottie probably isn't going to go over all that well.

Originally Posted by Businesstime

Fortunately I have no idea, but thanks for posting because I think this is going to make a terrific opinion opener.

Oh and boring answer that's probably true = ripping clothes off is a level of passion that the vast majority of chumps don't give women, and I'm sure at least a portion of a woman's mind is dedicated to sitting around all day fantasizing about that kind of sexual encounter. However, ripping a $200 cashmere sweater off a hottie probably isn't going to go over all that well.

Ya I wouldn't rip that. Guess it's best to ask what the sweater is made of first lol.

I think they prefer to get "taken" as opposed to actually having their clothing damaged. Be a man, take charge, show her you go after what you want, and in this instance it's HER.

Depends on the type of person.

Obviously don't rip her clothes off if she has given you no indication of wanting to sleep with you, but if she is keen go for it!

Nothing hotter than having a guy rip into you, it shows how keen he is.

Originally Posted by Precious

I think they prefer to get "taken" as opposed to actually having their clothing damaged. Be a man, take charge, show her you go after what you want, and in this instance it's HER.

Well said!

Being very sure she wants sex is important too, like Ren said, you don't want to be the sketchy pushy guy who gets punched just when he thinks he can hit it.

If you have been with her before, go for it! I would start with pulling her hair while I kiss her to manipulate her head, a light gesture of dominance. If she enjoys that then bodice ripper it is!

Originally Posted by harmonica

When it comes to getting women into bed my two women friends tell me that they love it when a guy rips their clothes off, in the moment, without asking. I asked them if it's a guy they just meet that night and they said definitely. They said that most women might not like that though.

So I asked around some more and they all said they do. So it seems most do, but don't realize that most other women also like it. Is this true, or will a lot of women be turned off. I kinda feel guilty and vandalizing about ripping clothes if they won't like it.

LOL this is just classic male/female communication failure.

Translation = they love it when a guy "rips their clothes off", NOT "rips their clothes while removing them."

Do you understand the difference??

Don't damage the clothes, but remove them aggressively. lol

Oh yeah agreed.

If you take a girl home from a club, then rip her favourite dress I can assure you, you will NOT be getting anything other than a slap in the face and paying for her cab fare home.

Originally Posted by RenAPIST

Oh yeah agreed.

If you take a girl home from a club, then rip her favourite dress I can assure you, you will NOT be getting anything other than a slap in the face and paying for her cab fare home.

Hmmm, well I dunno there are mixed thoughts here.