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    Fuck Buddy or Open Relationship?

    Ok so me and this girl are really having fun.

    Consistent sex (in many forms and in many interesting places), split the expenses, and i let it be known beforehand that I am not looking in any way or any form for a relationship.

    The only problem is that I think I might see her too much, and that she is developping feelings for me.

    She knows that I am hooking up with other women and having sex with em when I'm not with her. And it seems to me more like she 'let's it go', rather then being 'ok with it'.

    I don't want to send mix signals (but I've been told before that I do, because I'm considered a charmer?). If I do it's definately unintentional.

    As for the way I manage my relationship with this girl atm

    -No I love yous (no fucking kidding)
    -No public display of affection
    -No random kissing (unless it's because its leading directly to sex)
    -No 'gifts'
    -Everytime we see eachother, we have sex (if not intercourse, oral and such, no lets visit a museum QT bs (unless its to have sex in it))

    The only thing is that we see eachother often (I really like to fuck, and if im not hooking up with another girl, im meeting her and we have sex), and I know that this have been told to be a behavior not to have because it establishes a gf/bf thing.

    She also introduced me to her parents (not like an omg youre going to meet my parents for the first time, just a more or less incidential event), and has asked me to come sleep over at her place (which i kindly refused everytime, idk how the sex is going to work out with ppl in the house, her bed makes a lot of noise, like a lot).

    So I just want to keep things healthy. The sex is amazing and plenty. We really do some crazy shit. But I'm just worried that some attachment is starting to be created on her part (dont worry, im single for the first time in 2 years and im taking full advantage of that right now). One of her guy friends has told me something about her trying to do her best not to be attached and keep things casual. (I know huh?)

    I just want to know if you guys think that I'm slowly being pulled into something I don't really want, or if things have just coincidently happened this way. Or do you think that I'm more into an 'Open Relationship' more then in a FB situation.

    Will do a more indepth search later on, thanks for the input!


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    You should not see her more than once a week unless you're looking for something monogamous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vapor View Post
    You should not see her more than once a week unless you're looking for something monogamous.
    Ok but what if I'm not good enough to have enough women around me to fuck a different one everyday, but still want to have sex at least once or twice a day. What do I do?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SharpSh00t3r View Post
    Ok but what if I'm not good enough to have enough women around me to fuck a different one everyday, but still want to have sex at least once or twice a day. What do I do?
    Get a girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SharpSh00t3r View Post
    Ok but what if I'm not good enough to have enough women around me to fuck a different one everyday, but still want to have sex at least once or twice a day. What do I do?
    Three options.

    1. Get better so you can hook up with a few girls a week.
    2. Change your RM strategy and make her your girlfriend.
    3. Date a single girl you see often, understanding they won't tolerate that without some kind of girlfriend status for more than a matter of weeks (barring very LSE or something weird). Then date somebody else.

    Realistically, nobody has sex "at least once or twice a day" in anything but the shortest of terms.

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    Realistically, nobody has sex "at least once or twice a day" in anything but the shortest of terms.
    That's what this girl has been giving me. If we dont/cant fuck that day, I either get a BJ or I go out with my friends or call another girl I'm seeing.

    But the thing is that I just want to know the behaviors I can have that would make this last as long as possible. She knows I'm not looking for a relationship whatsoever. I just don't want expectations to be created because that's when ppl get hurt.

    Get a girlfriend.
    Well I THOUGHT about it! But when I remember that I havent been single the past 2 years, and that my last GF made me feel like shit about my sexuality, all I really want to is meet up new women and get laid. I mean, I know how to lay the pipe, so might as well use that to my advantage for now right?

    EDIT: I Think options 1-3 seem like the best for now. Besides, I've never done #2, it just happened by itself everytime, so I was just avoiding to do that. Thanks for the feedback though, always appreciated. I admire your work!
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