My ex wants to be friends. We havent talked in 6 months.
Discuss My ex wants to be friends. We havent talked in 6 months. at the Relationships within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; Originally Posted by SmoothO then bam I get dumped before valentines day with my reservations ...
- 02-24-2009, 12:53 AM #11
- 02-24-2009, 09:05 AM #12SmoothO Guest
self torture line hahahha. You're right though.
- 02-24-2009, 11:47 PM #13
If you're ex's and there's no residual bitterness, then you may as well be cordial about it and return texts/messages. You don't have to become BFF's or shit like that.
Although if being around her is going to bring back those old feelings, then don't.
- 02-26-2009, 09:14 AM #14SmoothO Guest
in my situation there is bitterness just because of the way it ended. But I do agree if the relationship's end was cordial and not as bad than it's okay (but it doesn't sound like it was at all.
The truth is most relationships even though maybe they try to end cordially, usually don't unless the person breaking up with the other person really makes an effort to be good and cordial about it and they really do want to be friends.