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Was hoping someone could direct me to a post, guide ...
Creating Obsession, Gaining Controle
Was hoping someone could direct me to a post, guide or a comprehensive information source for a strategy to make a woman you see "semi seriously" get totally obsessed and dependant on you. Managed to inadvertedly do it to the girl before this one, but canít say I want to copy that relationship (and her relationship with her family was much "worse").
And I have no ill intentions with this, just wanted to see if it was possible to make this gf way more serious, since she is content with keeping it casual due to the very true and logical fact that she wants to have some freedom during her youth. And know that I wonít want to stick around and wait for a few years in a semi serious relationship.
So, since pimps can turn Kansas farm girls trickin' I am guessing that there is a way to influence a woman who wants to sleep with you once or twice a week to also ... want allot more?
Dude if she is NOT attracted to you on deeper level let it be.
there are plenty of girls in the sea who will.
you're developing one-itis (kind of).
There are tricks and manipulation techniques to make women fall in love with you. Beware of the dark side. That's all i can say. It's REAAALLY REALLY UGLY (think: suicide, mental breakdown, un-wanted pregnancy, etc.)
Keep it real.
The ghost of pua's past.
How about a bit less ugly methods? Because the prob is that I would not have any problems finding a decent alternative to her, i just know that she would make such a damn good wife and mother in 5-6 years, just don’t want to wait around the 2 years it would take her to realize the same...
Originally Posted by mr_high_life
Do you want to try to change her or do you want to find a woman that suits your needs?
If she is young, and you "convince" her to stay with you, she'll end up cheating. IF she wants to have fun in her youth years, you can't change that.
I am young and I dated young women, they are young. They have to go through that stage. Bypassing it, might bring more regrets later in relationship/marriage, which leads to cheating.
.....I am not here to convince you to dump her for someone else.
but maybe there is a good reason why you should be around her for 2-3 years before "locking in"
What would happen if you would get her "locked in" and then 2-3 years down the road you realize that you two are not compatible?
It's like buying a new car. Gotta give'er a good test drive. Take her around the block couple times, floor it, jerk it back and forth, get the feel for handling.... same thing with women. You gotta see them in as many situation as you possibly can before quitting the game for "ONE".
The ghost of pua's past.
Sadly you make quite a bit of sense, and this was not something that I was not fully aware beforehand Every last true and annoying bit of it... I just wanted to be informed of the alternatives, looking for an alternative to the blatantly obvious!
It’s just damn hard to let go (and give up the best sex I've had) and move on to find something "in my price range" (following up on that car metaphor).
Thus my alternaive is to lay the ground work in case i would end up single in 3-5 years, once she's past that phase. And maing it easier to reconnect then. Any tips on that? (And then it would be prudent to break it of early summer to try being single for the first time in 4 years over the summer).