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    Where do you hang out with your girl?

    Hey guys well as the title says I'm asking you guys how nd where you hang out with your girl.
    The reason I'm asking is: I have gone eating something , strolled with her along a beautiful sunset, watched a dvd and now we're usually hanging around her place talking cuddling and having a good time but I guess I just ran out of ideas...
    People ask why do you only hang around her place all the time and a girl asked me yesterday why I dont go out with my girl.
    To be honest with you guys I enjoy what we're doin' and so is she but well ...

    any suggestions?

    thanks in advance

    Toby



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    I'm stuck for ideas too.

    If we're not out with a group of our friends then all we seem to do is hang out in her TINY room. I feel like I'm dying in that room! Really.

    I've tried the cinema but she complained about the seats being uncomfortable because she was trying to snuggle up to me so bad.

    I've tried eating out but it costs me a bomb (I don't have the heart to make her pay after all she does for me) and both times (yes, that's only twice in 5 months) she's complained about the food! or looked uninterested. Complain all you like honey, but not when I'm paying 40 up front for it.

    On her suggestion we went for a walk around a park on a bank holiday. I felt like dying. I felt like my free time was being eaten away. I just wanted to get home and play computer games.

    So all we basically do is hang out with friends, watch TV, listen to music, have sex.

    Not a bad life really.

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    Go to a comedy club, Race go-carts, Gun range maybe. The beach or any body of water. Take a road trip. Minature golf. Shopping for home decor. Concerts, jazz bars, dancing.

    I tend to get in a comfort zone sometimes and like laying around the house,but I try to keep a pocket full of ideas handy. It's cool to do things in a group with other couples. If the weather's shitty all day then we're definately staying home and fucking

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    hey guys =)
    The problem is I see her every day in school and we usually meet up every day. Or at least 4-5 days a week.
    I just cant fill all of these days with extraordinary events .
    I even talked to her about how she liked it hanging around her place... she replied she really liked it and would like to keep it the way it is...
    Anyway I just wondered whether this is freaky and not normal hanging around her house. I have to admit that this is my first relationship and I have no experience with this at all so I run into these questions all the time =).
    Please forgive me ^^

    keep it up =)

    Toby

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    Depends on the chick. Some girls like chilling at the house. Some girls are lame some are exciting. Depends on your preference and what type of girl is best suited for you. Don't sweat it

    However, if you're worried about things getting dull and mundane that may be due to the fact that you're around eachother every day doing the same shit. Girls or just people in general can feel a bit closed in after a while, especially if they are young and eventually realize that they still have some wild oats to sew. You don't want to get to a point were you're cramping eachothers style.

    If things are cool then don't worry about it.

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    good answers guys
    I now try to get a little more action in our every-day live.
    If you can come up with some other good ideas =)

    greetings

    Toby

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    go online and look for cool places near you. Took me ten minutes to find some good places to take a girl (thanks for spurring the motivation). For example, I found this neat place in lahaska PA that serves dinner while you watch a murder mystery and then a ballooning event. Just take some time to explore the area around you and dont be afraid to go about an hour out of your way - you can blind fold her and increase sexual tension (unrelated but who cares)

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    I guess you (and for that matter I) could spend some time checking out all those places you never got a chance to go to before, because you had nobody to go with. Then when you've taken 'a girl' to all of these places you will be more confident in them for the future.

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