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    Fucking married woman

    Wazap?
    I'm seeing a girl, shes married, so she haves a lot of power in the relationship because she choses when we can see us because "she needs to runaway" from her husband.
    This sucks! I don't like to give away the power in the relationship.
    Anyone in the same situation who can share some useful advise?
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    Quote Originally Posted by apx View Post
    Wazap?
    I'm seeing a girl, shes married, so she haves a lot of power in the relationship because she choses when we can see us because "she needs to runaway" from her husband.
    This sucks! I don't like to give away the power in the relationship.
    Anyone in the same situation who can share some useful advise?
    Thanks
    Wrong belief.. she only has power because you give it to her. Use her needs against her. Her marital status should have given her less power than you, by default. You have leverage. Course, you can get beaten up by the husband and shit, but ... you have other options of many unmarried women, right? Or is she your "special girl you can't walk away from"?

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    Thanks for the feedback Vapor and miaddict.
    mate, she has power because if I said to her "hey, come home, i want to fuck you now", she tells me "no, i can't leave home now, but i can arrange to go tommorrow from 18 to 19 hours".
    I dont give a damn about her, is just that is good in bed, and I want to keep her as FB and don't lose too much power in the relationship.
    I think Vapor advice is a gold nugget.
    thanks

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    Same game you would use with a non-married women
    applies to married women. The only difference here is
    that when she says she’s busy, she may actually be busy
    and cannot leave.
    Don't forget that her sexual need is being fulfilled by not
    only you, but her husband as well, and she just doesn't
    want it at the moment. Don't think that she comes over
    just for sex, perhaps its something else you offer that
    interests her.
    Married women cheat because their husband is not fulfilling
    them in some way, and they will search for that missing
    piece elsewhere.
    On a side note, it will feel like your fighting a war on two
    fronts, as opposed to just one with a non-married girl.
    This can get discouraging, but its great practice.
    A woman simply is, but a man must become. Masculinity
    is risky and elusive. It is achieved by a revolt from
    woman, and it is confirmed only by other men....
    Manhood coerced into sensitivity is no manhood at all.


    - Camille Paglia

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    Know your boundries...

    I wound up in this same situation just recently.The only thing was that she didn't want just a "casual" fling .Keep in mind that we never spoke of her current situation(minimal).You definately have the power in this situation. As things progressed (of course) feelings developed. But there are several factors involved. You can not be to demanding of her and you must respect the reallity of the situation(if you have other options then this shouldnt be a factor). Who is the more needy one here? She's going to have obligations and priorties beyond you so respect that. You don't want to be the back-up plan.Whatever is going on at home stay out of it and make it clear that every thing between you and her is between you and her. This kind of relationship is usually a lot of trouble and a dead end so don't get too cought up in it.If she is special then it's gonna take a lot of patience and understanding.I've been on both sides of that fence and it is nerve racking either way.

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    Know your boundries...

    I wound up in this same situation just recently.The only thing was that she didn't want just a "casual" fling .Keep in mind that we never spoke of her current situation(minimal).You definately have the power in this situation. As things progressed (of course) feelings developed. But there are several factors involved. You can not be to demanding of her and you must respect the reallity of the situation(if you have other options then this shouldnt be a factor). Who is the more needy one here? She's going to have obligations and priorties beyond you so respect that. You don't want to be the back-up plan.Whatever is going on at home stay out of it and make it clear that every thing between you and her is between you and her. This kind of relationship is usually a lot of trouble and a dead end so don't get too cought up in it.If she is special then it's gonna take a lot of patience and understanding.I've been on both sides of that fence and it is nerve racking either way. Good sex or not it may not be worth the effort.An experience non the less but there's plenty of fish in the sea.

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    She flaked me again, I lost my patience, I don't need this shit.
    I told her I can't be with her if she is going to flake me 3 times at week.
    So... neeeeext!!!
    Honestly, Don't get involved with married girls.
    Too much risk and too much problems
    Thanks to all for the feedback

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    Not good relationship material. You'll never trust her. If you do have a relationship, you'll wonder if she's going to cheat on you. Have fun and have a clean break from her soon and don't be surprised if she says she missed her period a month after you break up with her. She might be looking to get out of the marriage and wants an "overlap". This is a HUGE insecurity indicator.
    Someone like that shouldn't go past a weekend, no matter how good the sex is. You can find better out there. Just because she can do things that other girls you haven't been with can do, she's still doing her husband whether she'll admit it or not (or if he's not functional).
    If you want to play into her real life Lifetime movie, be my guest. You don't want women like this to run to you when you've gotten into an LTR with someone that has potential and she shows up. With your kid. That may or may not be yours.
    Women use sex as leverage and when you say no, it's interesting to see their true nature come out. Just don't be surprised if her husband shows up at your place.

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