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Discuss Old relationships/sticking points thread at the Relationships within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; Stay on topic. This is a thread for discussing things you have encountered in your ...
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    Stay on topic.

    This is a thread for discussing things you have encountered in your relationship that you seek advice on. The above is merely a statement, not a sticking point. If you want to give advice rather than get it then handing out BS lines & thinking yourself a sage does not cut it.
    Relationships are a great place to sleep, but really, would you want to live there?
    I was out of the game for 2 & a half years while I was with my GF who I love very much. She wants to get back together & I'm getting my life in order so I can get to London & be with her. Problem is I work in Leeds & travel frequently, she's a Lawyer with a big London firm. I hardly ever see her. I was unfaithful just once & that was when we first got together. I didn't think it was going anywhere serious at the time & I was on a 14 hour flight to Shanghai & the HB that I got to sit next to me from some mile high sarging ended up joining the mile high club with me. We were both initiated.
    When I returned from my trip my GF went to the states to do some training for aid work in Sierra Leone. When she came back we had only a month together before she left for Africa. I did the right thing & told her about what happened on the flight.
    I was crafty in my timing. She'd fallen in love with me by then. She forgave me & I was & still am very grateful for that.
    We maintained contact while she was in Sierra Leone, she's an amazing woman. She went out there to work with some of the orphans & amputees from the war in Liberia that had spilled over into SL. I also am an aid worker & take time off to do something when I can. This year I'm cycling to Palestine on my Cannondale F1000 Lefty, titanium with ELO just in case you're interested. It's with www.thepeacecycle.org
    This girl is so similar to me in many ways. So yeah, I'm wrestling with the thought of settling down again.
    I got married once. I got out of it pretty quick but it did yield an amazing treasure; my son who is the world to me.
    Four months she was away & four months I waited for her. My respect & love for her grew in her absence. In essence, it was our absence that anchored us to each other. She's the perfect girl for me, everything I desire & more. She wants to get married on 7-7-7. She's an HB 9 & can be a ten whenever she desires. She really is the most amazing looking woman I know. She satisfies me on all three levels, physically, mentally, spiritually.
    The thought of this really attracts me but here's the thing. I'm very good at what I do & I don't want to stop doing it. I could get married & be an instructor for the game, affilated with MM or set up on my own, that would sort me out, I'd still get a taste of the good life while having my family life at home.
    I don't have anything like a one-itis problem. Nowhere near. In fact I have the opposite. I have 'Infin-itis.' To coin a phrase. I really love her & respect her & so long as I'm honest with her we do okay.
    I may just give in. Retire from the game come July K7.
    It's the first time I've been genuinely stuck in the middle of a decision. So, that's my damn sticking point; fighting myself in two.
    There really is no one else LIKE her, no matter what anyone says. We are all unique... that's what makes us all the same.
    Either way, we love each other & shall do so until death & beyond. Love is all there is. So I'm back in the game for at least the next five months.
    In the game since 98. Anyone who sarges with me between now & then, make the most of me as your wing, just in case I get hitched.


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    When you decide to change what you cannot accept: this is revolution.


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    This is one of the best things about "Game". It's not just about f-closing HBs. It's about being that amazing guy; whether just for one night or forever.
    One day i'll be an amazing boyfriend.
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    F-Closin first dates?
    Is this a bad idea? I've had lotsa high school realtionships and shit... a couple over a year but I realise that now bein 21 the same rules don't apply... I'm pretty good with girls once they get interested and I've F-closed on just about every 'date' I've had... which is fuckin sweet for me but does F-closin right away take away from some of 'mystery' 'intensity' and if so what's a good way of re-developin some of the 'intensity' cuz I'm not so good at sayin no when they come lookin for it... I got a girl on the go now and she keeps comin back and I keep givin her my best (which she's enjoyin) but if the best becomes stagnant will she dissappear? I'm still a newb on the forums... is this post to vague? Help me out my friends!!
    "I went from hennessy to dreams and dreams to bigger things" Nelly

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    When you're young & you're both after something casual there is justification in the why wait sense.
    I avoid sleeping with a girl on the first date. I spent the night with my gf on our first date because neither of us wanted to go home. We made a pact not to "fuck each other's brains out" as I respected her & I wanted to see her again. We kissed, we talked, I teased the hell out of her & drove her wild. Lissed down her body & appeared to lose all control, then I'd just stop & remember our pact... "Next time" I said with a final kiss... next time.
    Our advanced flirting continues to this day & we have the best sex I've ever had. She's a nymph & I'd give it all up for her. I have to be very careful since she's joining this forum soon.
    If you value the girl then you should build up attraction & allow her to experience every aspect of you over time. You're not some shallow guy after a quick romp... unless you are (",) You're an artist & you can create for her, the most incredible experience she'll ever have with a guy.
    Take the V A H & play the game long term with all its teachings & subtleties. Be the best she'll ever have.
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    When you refuse to accept what you cannot change: this is trauma.

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