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first up, a fbuddy of mine complained the other day ...
a couple more Fbuddy q's
first up, a fbuddy of mine complained the other day that i only contacted her for sex... thought that was what the arrangement was (she didn't want a relationship at the start and made that quite clear)
secondly... do i need to tell them my every move (i.e. i went interstate for a week, lost cell reception and came back to a few very irate messages, then the fbuddy from the first question cracked the shits big time, saying that i should have told her) again... i thought that was the beauty of the Fbuddy relationship... not being tied down.
thirdly... if they ask about other girls, do i tell them about other girls i've picked up, or just tell them i don't kiss and tell?
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Always be honest to them. Always. Read Hysteria's earlier posting on this topic. Tell them that you are seeing other people.
But don't just contact them for sex, or they'll start feeling like an object. You don't have to have a relationship, but if there's a party, invite most of your friends and fbuddies to come to, that way they are a fuck buddy, not a fuck object.
If you have balls, don't be a freaking pussy!