Girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me. What to do to get her back
I'll keep this as short as I can. I read the post on "how to get your girlfriend back". Just want some feedback on my circumstances.
My GF broke off our 3 year relationship last month. At this point, I was pushing her to start thinking about marriage but due to use being from 2 separate religions, she wasn't able to bring herself to face her mother. Finally she broke up with me saying that she couldn't trust me and that i was financially too impulsive.
For a month, i went back every week like a puppy dog to get her back and finally i decided I was going to leave the city. That got her running back and we spent 4 days together having fun like we were dating again. The next day, she says she still needs to work things out and needs time to herself to figure out what she wants.
So as of yesterday, We aren't going to see each other and I promised i wouldn't see her unless she came to me. I get an email late last night, where she thanks me and justifies why she needs the time, that what we had was special and that if she comes back it will be for good. I realize now I shouldn't have done this but I emailed her earlier today, telling her the following:
"Thank you for the email. I can only imagine the turmoil you're going through and I can see how hard this has been on you. I acknowledge your commitment to your self discovery and commend you on taking it on as very few people would have the courage to do so. I look forward to your evolution.
I truly believe in this relationship and believe that we are meant to be. That belief is enough to give me the strength to handle what life has to throw my way on this journey to being with you.
Know that you are never alone and that even when I'm not with you, I'm always there with you, for you and by your side.
When we come together, there should be NO room for regret on either side.I love you from the core of my being and would accept no less than ALL of you, in fact I demand nothing less.
I want to also thank you for creating the space for me to evolve and recreate myself as this has been a long time coming. You've created a hunger in me to create the life that I have always wanted in all aspects and to honor my commitments to myself.
I love you, My Love"
Reading this over and over again, i realize that I shouldn't have emailed her. i am now committed to not contacting her and taking care of my life. My B'day is coming up July 6th. What should my next steps be?