I was out with my girlfriend (of 9 months) on Saturday night (both in love with each other). We were walking to a club and we walk past a guy, I catch her checking him out hard. Whatever. We go into the club, we're dancing. Next thing I know I see the guy in the club and he is standing behind me. I constantly see my girl checking him out while we're dancing. I know it's natural to look, but to constantly check him out like that? It was pissing me off. Now, I obviously do not have irrefutable proof that she was checking him out constantly there. Maybe she was just looking around. But I am pretty damn sure that was what was happening.
Girlfriend checking out other guy?
Now, I don't know if I handled this right, but after a while of it happening I just turned away from her and started walking towards a group of girls there dancing. She comes up behind me and grabs me and pulls me back towards her and starts kissing me. This was probably the wrong move seeing as we're in a long term relationship so we should be able to talk things out. But it does kind of confirm her checking him out. As if she realized she got caught and saw that I was pissed about it and about to go talk to other girls.
We never talked about it Saturday and we also didn't talk about it Sunday. Is there anyway to bring this up without coming across as petty and insecure? It's bothering me a lot that she did this.