I'm just looking for other peoples view on this:
Ex contacted me after 1 year with a interessting message
Ex and me broke up 1 year ago. Cost me some effort and fall backs, but I got over her a couple months ago. Current situation is that I have been dating again, in the proces of a Fuck buddy and getting out of the rat race. She apparently got dumped by her boyfriend.
She sent me a message through facebook with this:
I'm sure this is not a msg u where expecting. But sometimes people (me) realize things and have the need to spit it out.
I realize something today and it was all the things I put you trough. I never valued your person, how it really needed to be valued. You where only good and kind to me, but I was to blind to see that. Your a real man *myname, and I hope really that you never change, let nobody take you down.
Even though I never lied to you and always tried to be honest I know realize that things should have been done a different way. I'm really sorry for all I put you trough. Maybe you maybe thinking why this msg? Why now? Well here's your answer. Have you heard te saying "Karma is a bitch?" its so true... Lol I can't help laughing because it had to happen to me for me to understand what I did to you.
I hope your doing great and that you archived all your goals.
God bless you"
So I haven't responds yet and it's been a couple of days.
As far as I'm concerned i've got a few options:
2. Say thank you and leave it a that
3. Respond and a open question for casual contact
4. Respond and try to see if something is there
What do you guys think of this?
And as always thank you for your opinions. This forum has helped me a lot and turned me into a better man.