I've seen this happen all the time. I know a HB10 that broke up with her bf 6 months ago for cheating on her, and for the last 6 months since they broke up their relationship has been going "on" and "off"! He treats her like shit and he's been laying a lot of girls into bed during this period and has cheated on her like million times before.. and she still runs back to him! They fight and then get back together, then fight again then get back together again... etc. wtf? I heard they haven't been officially back with each other since they first officially broke up but they've been seeing each other "on" and "off" unofficially during the last 6 months. And they had a fight again last weekend so their relationship is off at the moment.. (hope it stays like this forever)..
Why do girls keep going back with their douche-bag ex bfs?
I've been gaming this girl and I can feel that she's confused between me and her ex, so I got a lot of IOIs.. she told me she loves gazing into my eyes.. blah blah, she even initiated kino and slapped my ass... etc. so I asked her out and she flaked (genuine excuse, I knew through her mum), asked her out again and she flaked again.. I went no contact with her for two months (she initiated texting about 2-3 times during the 2 months).
Knocking common sense in her will never work.. since we all know girls don't function by logic but through emotions. So telling her that she deserves better than him and that he treats like dirt.. blah blah is never gonna work. Is there anything I can do to guide her or help through the process of getting over him and moving on and taking right decision? (they went out with each other for 2 years) and she's 19
She has never mentioned her ex to me, but a mutual friend that is close with both of us told me all these stories about her ex being the biggest dickhead.. etc. Apparently he's not even good on looks, he's short and stuff! don't know what he has going on for him?