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    "Change her mood not her mind"

    What does this saying really mean? How to change her mood and not her mind? Someone please let me know. I want to see how to do this.



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    I don't go into definition, you should know that, I will show you what to do
    This is also the best way to deal with, for instance a one-word respond

    That is a general approach we do when girl is not invest to us during the set
    by doing Investment Value Cycling to change mood

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    Quote Originally Posted by BizzBon3 View Post
    What does this saying really mean? How to change her mood and not her mind? Someone please let me know. I want to see how to do this.
    You didn't share much of your situation but it could also relate to the fact that a woman's attraction is based on emotion, not logic.

    You can't convince a girl to be with you. You have to make her feel it.

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    OP: That saying means that women are guided by their emotions, not their thoughts. You can't appeal to the female mind through logic and reason. The female mind does not work in any kind of logical or systematic manner. You have to change how she feels about a situation, not what she thinks/knows about it.

    This concept is very important when it comes to beating LMR.
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/sex/141465-why-you-need-quit-porn-now.html

    Women have two types of toys: teddy bears and vibrators. Teddy bears are for when they are emotional and want to watch romcoms, and vibrators for when they want to get off. What toy are you?

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    Would this be the best way to go about getting an ex back. Not even talking about the relationship. We ended cuz I started to be an AFC. I've changed a lot. I'm the same guy I was when we met. I got my swagger an inner game back. So would that be the est way to go about getting back with an ex?

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    Its not even just girls. Guys too. People make act based on emotion, not logic. To get someone to do something you have them create a feeling of wanting to do it. Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. I think the chapter is called "Why you can never win an argument."

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    where can i find that? is it a hard copy? and by who?

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    Example: Last night i'm in bed, naked with a girl and she says "BnG, I don't think we should have sex tonight, I'm not a ONS kind of girl"

    I play it off as a joke "We've known eachother for years" [we haven't, I met her last year briefly and then ran into her and got her number like a week ago]

    I don't argue with her logically, instead I agree with her and start running my hands up and down her body, after a bit I start fingering her and rubbing her clit and getting her so horny and wet that she says "she wants me so bad" and gets on top of me to fuck.

    I changed her mind by not engaging in a mood-killing, logical, argument about whether or not we should have sex. Instead I joked, agreed, and continued doing what I was doing.

    -BnG
    theattractionforums.com/relationships/145617-why-your-relationship-sucks
    theattractionforums.com/relationships/153112-insecurity-lack-trust-cheating-relationship
    theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/153452-how-properly-use-kino-read-comment

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    The book is about $10 in hard copy or ebook. The author is Dale Carnegie.

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    ok that makes sense. Now would this be the best way at approaching an ex after no contact. She dumped me because I was being an AFC. Not anymore pal! Im over that shit. No one is going to do that to me again. Im a new man!

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