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    You're going ridiculously hard. It's almost unprecedented. Why don't you try what I suggested? Just try it. You owe it to yourself.



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    Hi Lagers, thx for your reply... but I think I'll wait a while longer and see how it goes because she seems to be totally ignoring my text. I don't want to put her in an awkward position.

    The only text she replied was my Christmas greeting and that's all. I guess she probably has gotten over me. I'll see how it goes at work.

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    Actually screw my previous post... I think I'll freaking approach her on Tues once i get to work. Probably wait for her at the carpark, pull her to a corner and tell her how I really feel.

    WISH ME LUCK!!! I really need it! Its either I make it or break it!

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    I talked to her on the phone. She said we are friends. I Told her if being friends from a start will bring us closer, I will give this relationship my all. And if regular contact and spending some time together will rekindle what we had when we 1st know each other. Told her I dont play mind games with her, mind games are for kids and that's way history for me. And i asked her just to give me a 2nd chance and to take things slow.

    Her reply was " Sorry i have a BF now & thx"

    My heart just dropped and broke into tiny pieces

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    You will receive no mercy from me.

    While my predicament was different from your own, the behavior and actions described are almost similar. Cut off contact completely, you foolish twat. I lost my goddamn job because of infatuation. Even after professing my feelings and intentions she continued to be callous. There is a gaping hole in my heart and hate fills the void. Quit now before you become embittered.

    Keep workplace interaction casual and friendly. Remember: mismanaging your emotions in the workplace leads to death. The healing process will take time, but you will recover.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IgRad View Post
    You will receive no mercy from me.

    While my predicament was different from your own, the behavior and actions described are almost similar. Cut off contact completely, you foolish twat. I lost my goddamn job because of infatuation. Even after professing my feelings and intentions she continued to be callous. There is a gaping hole in my heart and hate fills the void. Quit now before you become embittered.

    Keep workplace interaction casual and friendly. Remember: mismanaging your emotions in the workplace leads to death. The healing process will take time, but you will recover.
    Hi Igrad, Thx for your reply. Yeah I'll move on. I'll totally ignore her even if i have to bump into her at work. I've deleted her # and I'm pretty sure I will never talk to her again. Thank god we work in different areas of the company otherwise its gonna sting big time.

    I can't believe she actually moved on so quickly. I guess life is harsh and i have to accept the fact that i was at fault to lose my chance in the first place. I guess she was considering me and the other guy before,I fucked everything up by making her mad with my text reply for her constant texting and now she has chosen him... Well, lesson learnt!

    Next time I will keep my big fat mouth shut up even if the girl i like is spamming my hp with text or remind her gently that I have a life.

    I expected for the worst, at least it doesn't hurt much now. I just feel disappointed.

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