Girlfriend for 2.75 years dumped me 5 days ago

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    Girlfriend for 2.75 years dumped me 5 days ago

    First off i love her and want her back. Second we live together and i cant move till the end of the month. I wont be devastated if i dont get her but we had such a good relationship that i let my personal problems get in the way and i don't want it to end bc of that. I Did not do enough stuff with her and she got fed up with that and yeah that's my fault. She dumped me Thursday morning right before work and ran away for four days back home. I was weak and made all the mistakes trying to change her mind, not accepting it on so on. Than i found this website wish i would have found it sooner. So she got back and we had our talk and she told me from me not being there she just had a disconnect from me. I told how i got the wake up call and i am going to be a better man and not just say it show it. She said she already made up her mind and she needs to follow her feelings and i said OK i said all i can say and guess that's it. she said she was going to stay at a friends house till I move. but now she slept on the couch last night. So next time i see here I am going to tell her that after the talk we had i think breaking up is the best option and i feel like i need to move on with my life and at this point it should be nc but we live together what should i do?



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    well I'm going through a break up right now with 18 month relationship. I say try to not see her at all. It makes it harder when you see her everyday. Can you/she stay at a friends place? I know this is the worst feeling in the world but we can get thru this

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Man View Post
    well I'm going through a break up right now with 18 month relationship. I say try to not see her at all. It makes it harder when you see her everyday. Can you/she stay at a friends place? I know this is the worst feeling in the world but we can get thru this
    Yeah thats what im trying to figure out i don't have many options as far as crash pads but that's what i was thinking.

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    How about you sleep on the couch? You know, instead of making your ex do that...

    Also, if you want to get her back, look into the classical writings section of the Forum and look for Savoy's post on how to get your ex back, then also look for the post "killing beatrice" read both, and then decide what you want to do from there.

    Good luck with everything.
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    Over time, you and a gf can drift apart if you do too many things separate from each other.

    But if the case was her always doing what you wanted, and she never got to do much, she had a valid point. But if you did a lot of things she wanted to do, then maybe this was for the best.

    Give it another week and see how things go, the closer it gets to the end of the month. I wouldn't bring up the breakup until you actually have the boxes out and start packing.

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