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still win a girl back that used to like me? aparently she likes someone else now..
there is this girl i been talking to for a little over two months. we hit it off really good when we first meant. i used to see her all the time. she told me that she really liked me and i told her the same after the first couple weeks.
We were never official. she always told me that she was convoluted so we never ended up making it official. however we hung out quite often. long story short, just recently she told me she stopped liking me and that she liked someone else now alot. she told me that last week, but shes meet this new guy about 3 weeks ago.
last night we hung out and we ended up having sex again. im starting to get mixed feelings about her.. shes telling me that she likes this other guy alot, but we still made out and went all the way. i still like her alot.....
I also forgot to mention that before we fucked, I was giving her a massage, but even before that she was still showing interest by giving me a peck earlier in the day and not getting out my car as I was dropping her off.. So I not sure if me massaging her may have escalated the whole thig or not because of what happened prior..
can anyone tell me what i can do to win her back? has anyone ever been in this type of situation? tell me how you handled it..
She obviously still thinks of you when she wants to have sex so you did something right along the way. It sounds to me like she's young and not really looking for a relationship. Accept it for what it is - fun times with a cool chick, don't push the relationship aspect of it at all.
So if it were you then youd just drop it? But do you think in this situation I would have any chance of winning her back if I played my game right? Im not good at the whole pua life,, but I guess you can say I did let my guard down along the way...
Originally Posted by bluefin
I also forgot to mention that before we fucked, I was giving her a massage, but even before that she was still showing interest by giving me a peck earlier in the day and not getting out my car as I was dropping her off.. So I not sure if me massaging her may have escalated the whole thig or not because of walhat happened prior.. >_<
don't be the cuckold, pussy whipped boy toy. if she isn't serious about you then why let her string you along until she finds what she's really looking for? nobody deserves that.
keep things light and casual. but in the mean time, try to meet/game other girls and have some back up plans of your own.
I see where your getting at, but damn I didn't think i would end up liking the girl so much. I know it makaes more sense for me to move on... But, is there anything I can actually do? How hard is it for someone like me to change a girls mind like that in my favor anyways??
Originally Posted by poopface
When a girl makes up her mind she's done, it is best to move on.
When you move on, she MAY decide she had it better with you but until you do so, she will remain "convoluted" and still using you. Don't let her, no matter how much you like her, like yourself more
I like the above comment about "liking yourself more" - I think it's good to be a little distant. I just found myself liking a younger girl in my area, but in order to keep things in my favor (and on some advice I received here) I decided to disappear a bit. Even though I was only out of touch for a few days it seemed to remind her a) that I have options b) that I have my own interesting life c) that she could quickly lose my interest in her if she isn't measuring up. It's important to always think of yourself as the prize, even if you dig the girl. You'll win more respect that way.
Originally Posted by bluefin
i really like that idea of "liking yourself more" lol. i think ill just end up doing that disappearing act for a bit afterall, you guys threw in a lot of good points. i still have a lot to learn haha. but damn i didnt think id end up liking her so much. thanks you guys!!
The only reason why you started liking her so much is because she made you think that she's unattainable (i.e. liking this other guy, being convoluted). Instead, YOU need to be the one who is unattainable. You need to show her that your life doesn't revolve around her, that it would have made no difference to your world whether she existed or not.
Once you start believing in yourself, a lot more girls will want you, not just her.
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