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    Pawn your gf?

    If you were going out with a girl who was say a 7-8 and then a 9-10 came along and wanted to get with you. Would you jump ship?
    Lets assume both girls had fun personalities.
    Pawning a girl in a club is one thing, but pawning your girl friend has a far bigger stigma attatched to it. I'm not in the position yet, but i can realistically see it happening in the not so distant future.


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    If the gf means that little to you, I'd dump her and say you need to see other people, 'cause usually you can establish a good ol' fuckfriend relationship as long as you are the dumper and not the dumpee. And frankly, I see no reason to be an asshole either, you'll only end up with a bad reputation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Paradox121
    If you were going out with a girl who was say a 7-8 and then a 9-10 came along and wanted to get with you. Would you jump ship?
    Lets assume both girls had fun personalities.
    Pawning a girl in a club is one thing, but pawning your girl friend has a far bigger stigma attatched to it. I'm not in the position yet, but i can realistically see it happening in the not so distant future.
    If I were you I would first sleep with the 9-10 and then go out with both for a while to ensure that the change is really worth it. I am in your situation right now. I know this is not really fair on my girlfriend but as long as she doesn't find out she won't get hurt (luckily they live in two different cities)…. If I was in this situation a few years ago I would have handled differently, but now I don't care. I prefer to have remorses than regrets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Imperatore77
    If I were you I would first sleep with the 9-10 and then go out with both for a while to ensure that the change is really worth it. I am in your situation right now. I know this is not really fair on my girlfriend but as long as she doesn't find out she won't get hurt (luckily they live in two different cities)…. If I was in this situation a few years ago I would have handled differently, but now I don't care. I prefer to have remorses than regrets.
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    i have to agree....

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    I'm under the impression that pawning, as described in VAH, is a theoretical idea that simply isn't done in real life. This was a topic of interest to me a few months ago, and I could find no incidence of pawning in any FRs anywhere in the community. Plenty of threads asking about it and ideas being tossed around, but nobody actually using it in field. Too risky and too big a pain in the ass to be practical.
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    Not only is it impractical, but it's a total scumbag move.
    Not even Sovereign would do that.....!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vapor
    I'm under the impression that pawning, as described in VAH, is a theoretical idea that simply isn't done in real life. This was a topic of interest to me a few months ago, and I could find no incidence of pawning in any FRs anywhere in the community. Plenty of threads asking about it and ideas being tossed around, but nobody actually using it in field. Too risky and too big a pain in the ass to be practical.
    It's just like walking up to a random girl and asking her to help you make another girl jealous for a few minutes. You may have no other interaction with the pawn after the jealousy plot sets in, but she may also become merged into your set as well.
    I think it's more of a tactic to be utilized for only 10's. It's that artificial social proof that allows you to walk into the 10's set and not get immediately blown out - just like merging sets with the 10, sometimes it's the only way in.
    I think people might be hesitant to use it simply because of the "throw-away" aspect of the pawn herself. It seems slightly dehumanizing to most people, thus I imagine this is really the only stigma and barrier to its more widespread use in field. All's fair in love and war though. Realistically, the pawn probably won't even care; if she did, oh well. Do you? Are you ever going to see them again? There's a reason you typically only enlist pawns of a grade of 7-8 or lower, if you're going after a 10.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oneiricon
    It's just like walking up to a random girl and asking her to help you make another girl jealous for a few minutes.
    That is a pivot, not a pawn.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oneiricon
    Realistically, the pawn probably won't even care; if she did, oh well. Do you? Are you ever going to see them again? There's a reason you typically only enlist pawns of a grade of 7-8 or lower, if you're going after a 10.
    It's so fked up that you think it's okay to use someone if they are "only" a 7-8. I'd really like to see pictures of some of you guys.
    I won't send you my picture and I don't know what she's thinking.

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    This is way off-topic.
    Consider this a warning and I'm moving the thread.
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