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    So... it's been 4-5 months since break up.

    Things are going VERY good for me right now but I do occasionally still think about my ex... I deactivated my fb but sometimes I just check out her page to see if she changed her DP photo...

    I still ponder through the past when I was being an AFC to her.. very embarrassing.

    We haven't spoke for 4-5 months but my friends sometimes brings her up and I quickly change the topic. My friend's girlfriend had a formal party and she was going to invite me but then my ex said "if you invite him I'm not coming". I heard this from my friend.

    What does this mean.? BTW I'm still uncomfortable when someone mentions her name or if someone says that she will show up to this event I'm showing up.

    I have done the no-contact thing, but don't intend to get back together, just want her to feel a change in me. But her being uncomfortable around me is that bad or good on my side. I saw her couple of weeks back and she was staring at me and I was fully ignoring her.



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    Quote Originally Posted by jamesfirst View Post
    Things are going VERY good for me right now but I do occasionally still think about my ex... I deactivated my fb but sometimes I just check out her page to see if she changed her DP photo...
    I'd stop checking her FB but good job overall.
    I still ponder through the past when I was being an AFC to her.. very embarrassing.
    We all have cringe-inducing stories. One of the nice things about growing up is looking back and realizing you did dumb shit. The people who don't look back and cringe at some things usually didn't grow up and are still doing the dumb shit.
    We haven't spoke for 4-5 months but my friends sometimes brings her up and I quickly change the topic. My friend's girlfriend had a formal party and she was going to invite me but then my ex said "if you invite him I'm not coming". I heard this from my friend.

    What does this mean.?
    She told somebody she doesn't want to see you. Seriously, you can't understand the motivations of somebody you haven't seen or spoken to in months. All you know is she said something to somebody. And that's OK, people are perfectly aware you change the subject when they bring her up. Doesn't mean you hate your ex.

    I have done the no-contact thing, but don't intend to get back together, just want her to feel a change in me.
    Not in the cards. I know exactly how it feels. Maybe she'll see you in a year and you'll look different, but that's about the best we can do.
    But her being uncomfortable around me is that bad or good on my side. I saw her couple of weeks back and she was staring at me and I was fully ignoring her.
    You don't know if she's uncomfortable or not. You only know she said something.

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    Maybe on the other hand... You just shouldn't care much?

    There's abundance, my friend. If she's meant to come back, she will with time. Patience is gold. Forget and stop analysing the situation.

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    Thanks guys

    And yes time will tell... I still do like her but I can control myself not to even think about her... sometimes :P

    And yes luckily I have done some dumb shit with her which will help me escalate into being more alpha in my next relationship

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