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So some of you might know this previous posts, but ...
Update- What do y'all think?
So some of you might know this previous posts, but I recently got back together with my ex of a year and a half. We been together about a month or so.
We had a horrible crazy relationship with lying, cheating on both our parts. So after almost 2 years she contacts me and we start talking and one thing leads to another and we're together.
So I've been paying attention to all her lil signs and signals. And so far so good. She always used to talk on the phone and tell me to go away- she was just talking to a "friend"- but now she NEVER answers her phone- usually turns it off when with me and tells me who she's talking to if I asked- where as before she'd get mad and say "mind your business"
Tonight I call, she picks up with "Hey baby call u in a minute, got someone on the other line"....1st thought is it's her ex, so I'm not expecting a call till later. 4 minutes later she calls, I ask was it your ex? (AFC/needy I know)
She answers yea are you mad? I say no you have that right, I'm just glad you told me. She says 'yeah I said I had to go so I could talk to you before I felt sick again (she had surgery to remove a lump in her breast). Don't worry I'm not gonna lie again"
So far so good. Any thoughts?
PS sorry for the length and it's kinda me thinking out loud lol
asking about the ex was a bit needy, but since you were right, i think it comes off like you know her and her situation. careful with that stuff. you handled it ok though.
I think you done fine
dont punish the lie, pray the honesty =) i think thats how confidence gorws
I knew it was needy but it just slipped out lol I've been making it a point not to ask stuff like that so far it's going pretty well! Thanks guys.
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