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    How to effectively punish

    One of my ~girlfriends fucked up big time last night (nothing involving fucking other guys, she just did something that really pissed me the fuck off), and I deleted her number and nexted her. She comes back to me today, pleading and begging me to take her back, saying shit like "I'll do anything you want!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!" I was like wow. But I wasn't exactly sure how to handle this. I have 3 options:

    1) tell her to fuck off
    2) make her earn her way back to me and see if i start liking her again
    3) make her earn her way back to me and use her as a sex slave

    I'm leaning towards option 3, but I'm thinking the steps needed to reach both 2 or 3 would be the same. Obviously I can't just flat out be like "ok bitch come over and blow me every morning", so how should I best exploit the current balance of power so the end result is her being well-trained and submissive as she's so glad I took her back at all?



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    haha you're mad as hell right now aren't you. take a while to cool off.

    option 2 is the best bet. sex slaves are a pain in the ass. you want a girl who will blow you any time you want and still takes responsibility for herself and her own actions. you will need time to forgive her, if that is what you choose to do. i would be straight with her. ' the thing you did really pissed me off, you are going to need to make it up to me if you want to be with me and make sure it doesn't happen again.'

    decide what you need to feel better about it. tell her that's what you want. if she does it, you need to completely forgive her and let it go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stayfresh View Post
    i would be straight with her. ' the thing you did really pissed me off, you are going to need to make it up to me if you want to be with me and make sure it doesn't happen again.'

    decide what you need to feel better about it. tell her that's what you want. if she does it, you need to completely forgive her and let it go.
    I told her that. I blew her off at first and said I wasn't interested anymore but she kept pleading so I said "it's gonna take a lot more than you saying sorry for me to get over this." Then she said she'll do anything I want, whatever it takes. But from a genuine non-gamey perspective I can't think of anything I really want from her so I'm not sure what to tell her ... I do need to at least think of some stuff because I know if I just let the shit slide this time she'll keep trying to push my buttons.

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    What did she do to get you pissed off?

    What I would do: tell her "I'll think about it" and give it a few days, up to a week, and then tell her "meet up with me at.." and don't give her a definite answer right away. Go somewhere you and her could spend a few hours and chill out, have fun, so at the end of the night you can tell her "I'll call you soon", then the next date should be something you would enjoy doing, that you know she would not like. Make it an "all about me" date and see if she's a good sport about it. Eventually things should be back to normal.

    Don't fuck her if she's being desperate. You'll lose respect for her, and it'll make you want to screw other girls.

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    Sounds like she's crossed some serious boundaries - next her or get tooled by her again in the future.

    Mind sharing what happened?
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