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    Don't do this

    Don't talk to any girl, under any circumstances, who is in a relationship. The reason is not necessarily because it implies meddling in a person's affairs, but because it is an easy way to get hurt. Allow me to explain: I had been talking to this girl on an online dating website who showed interest in me, and even gave me her phone number. After a few days of exchanging messages back and forth, she informs me she is going to stay with her current boyfriend after all. I of course can't argue with that. However, all the texting was for naught, and hopes of getting together with her, which had been built through the correspondence, was crushed. Guys, if a girl has a boyfriend, even if she declares his days are numbered, be on the safe side and walk away. Don't let this happen to you.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Zoran325 View Post
    Isn't that common sense?
    Lol. True...

    He just needs to vent

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    A woman who you meet ON AN ONLINE DATING SITE is available. Your losing her had nothing to do with her boyfriend.

    Don't have one bad experience, take her word for it on what went wrong, and extrapolate that to what you and all other people should do in the future.

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    I met a girl on Facebook about a month ago. She said she had a boyfriend. I had sex with her a week later.

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    A better rule is this: don't get into a relationship with a girl who either cheated on her bf with you or left him for you.

    Why? What starts in cheating ends in cheating, and if she so easily leaves her last bf, she'll just as easily leave you. You want to get in a relationship where the girl does not have issues / strings attached to her last bf. Basically, you want a clean slate without baggage.

    You can have all the sex you want with a girl who has a bf though, as long as you don't try to make her your gf.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bobywaker View Post
    A better rule is this: don't get into a relationship with a girl who either cheated on her bf with you or left him for you.

    Why? What starts in cheating ends in cheating, and if she so easily leaves her last bf, she'll just as easily leave you.
    What if the reason she left the last guy was he was a loser, and she left him because she met you, an alpha, and realized you were better than her now-ex-boyfriend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bobywaker View Post
    A better rule is this: don't get into a relationship with a girl who either cheated on her bf with you or left him for you.
    There's a world of difference between cheating and dumping first. Some people are in unhappy relationships but they procrastinate on breaking up. It would be normal for them to finally dump the unfulfilled relationship if another guy came along.

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    Maybe that part of the rule is more personal to me, but here's my reasoning.

    If you scoop up a girl right after a breakup, you don't give her time to get her shit together, and you run the risk of her having second thoughts and going back to her bf. Unnecessary drama, constant texting between her and her ex, the eventual "closure sex" and who knows what else. No thanks, I'd rather find a girl who's been single for a little while.

    But, as with all things, if you're willing to take the risk, go ahead. From my experience, there's bound to be baggage, and it'll cause headaches in the future.

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    but i like hot girls and they are rarely single.

    nature is red in tooth and claw. i fight for what i want. also, he who lives by the sword dies by the sword, so yeah those girls will cheat and dump you.

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