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    How to make her feel special

    I have been together with my girlfriend for about a month now and we really like each other. But there's one thing that bothers me. I feel like I'm not making her feel special enough. I mean we have a lot of fun and we are really compatible, but at the same time I dont feel like we talk about "us" enough. I feel like we're just really really good friends. And the other day we were about to have sex, or make love, however you wanna call it, but she said she that "it didn't feel right." And I had another post about this already, and that other post only confirmed my suspicions that i wasn't making her feel special enough. But that is the dilemma here, because I really don't know how to go about doing that.

    So my question is, How do you make your woman feel special and how do you make her first time as special as possible?



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    Quote Originally Posted by kong88 View Post
    This is posted in the wrong forum again.

    I think you said last time this girl is a virgin, right? If so, your goal is NOT -- make her feel special enough that she gives it up for you so that you get what you want.

    There's two ways to look at it -- since you are posting in the relationship section, from that angle, it's an issue of trust and closeness. She'll feel that she trusts you and wants to be close to you when she sees that you are genuinely nice to her and she's also attracted to you because you have a great life that's separate from her -- with all your cool friends and activities.

    The other way to look at it is a seduction problem. Are you setting up the kinds of situations and locations where she'll feel comfortable getting it on? If that's the case, there's another forum for that.
    I feel like you're right but just not in this situation, because she has told me many times that she trusts me more than anyone in her life. Maybe I should mention that I'm still in highschool, I think that might be a big detail that I forgot to add.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kong88 View Post
    You're 20 and you are in high school?
    thats probably the problem right there lol

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    sounds like you just gotta build some more comfort/ rapport with her. when shes saying that it doesnt feel right, basically you havent put her in the right mood, so this could be a cue to amp up your seduction skills

    then again, if she's 18, and still a virgin, she's just gonna feel wierd anyway, so you've got your work cut out for you!
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    Quote Originally Posted by kvision View Post
    sounds like you just gotta build some more comfort/ rapport with her. when shes saying that it doesnt feel right, basically you havent put her in the right mood, so this could be a cue to amp up your seduction skills

    then again, if she's 18, and still a virgin, she's just gonna feel wierd anyway, so you've got your work cut out for you!
    haha thanks dude good advice.

    and to everyone else I'm not actually 20....

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    moderators should delete this thread for age reasons

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    Quote Originally Posted by kong88 View Post
    moderators should delete this thread for age reasons
    And you're really cool!

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