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    Can I get her back - Please help!!

    Hi, Im new here and I need help.

    I was seeing the most amazing girl for just over 2 months. Things were, or seemed like they were going very well. She was my first ever real girlfriend and I cared about her so much.

    I made the mistake of falling in love with her early on and told her twice I loved her. A week after this she broke it off saying she didnt feel the same. Im sure telling her I loved her was a big mistake!

    Its been 2 and bit weeks since we broke up, I still want her back.
    Can it be possible for me to get her back?

    Help me!!



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    What you said: "I LOVE you! I LOVE you!"

    What she heard: "PLEASE love me! PLEASE love me!"

    You made the rookie mistake almost everyone makes when they begin dating in life - You got too serious too quickly - consequently you came off as needy and desperate. I'd say learn from the experience and move on to other girls, but I'm sure you're fixated on getting back the first chick you've ever dated. Big mistake thinking that way, BTW.





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    everything bigduke said.

    ive been with girls past 6 months and still not been ready to tell them i love them, or just havent felt it. honestly man, id move on. you werent together that long, so it shouldnt take you too long to get over her. learn from it!
    Who you are speaks so loud that I can't hear what you're saying

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    I can not let this one go, There has to be a way to fix this?
    There has never been a girl I liked more.
    Any real advice would be good.

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    You need to be a bit more specific in your relation.
    Where did you guys meet ?
    You still see eachother now ?
    under what circumstances ?
    What do you/ she do ?

    ect. Details.

    Then we might can help.
    Take care bro!

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    Where did you guys meet ?
    You still see eachother now ?
    under what circumstances ?
    What do you/ she do ?
    We met in a club.
    Not seen each other in three weeks, but want to arrange a meet in 2 weeks time.
    she is a teacher, i work in an office.

    I know I screwed this up, but if I can get over her before we meet, just have fun and dont mention the past do you think this might help me?

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    Your odds where better if you would still see eachother ocasionally....
    When your meeting up now you already show interest but..
    Its a good thing she does want to meet you again !

    What you should do is show huge higher valua when you meet her again. This is a bit harder cause uve been dating but act like you started to have a lot of interesting things going on in your life! I dont know you personal so cant help you much on what things but the key thing is act busy with interesting things instead of boring and desperate cause you dont have this girl anymore.

    i know its hard...

    Good luck!!

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    I can not let this one go

    this is exaclty why you will lose her

    There has to be a way to fix this?

    sure, just like there is a way for a snowball to SOMEHOW find its way through hell. okay, so that may have been a douche thing to say, but honestly man, you need to listen to us. if you are arranging a meeting in two weeks, and youve been apart for 3, then its already going to have been a month. chances are what feelings she had will have pretty much dissipated. the fact that you are gonna try and get over her by this time is going to PREVENT you from getting over her, i promise. not tryin to be debbie downer here, but i can tell by the way you are talkin about this that you're only gonna end up making it worse for yourself, and pushing her further away. your best bet is to move on with your life, and initiate contact later on, thats your only shot at reconcilliation
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    Thanks for some other the constructive advice from you all.
    However Im hopefull I can get this girl back, I think this will be the easy part, keeping her might not be.

    So I am going to try and do this with some of the advice in mind. I will not act desperate or as if i want her back. I will act as if I have moved on, but i will have fun when i see her. I wont make any moves or talk about what happened.

    I will try to leave thing on a good note and hope she asks to meet again sometime or ask her again a week later.

    Any more advice welcome, I will update you on how it all turns out.

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