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    Guy bothering my guy through phone calls

    Hi:

    I've been in this relationship with my gf for 3 months, and since she is starting to trust on me more, she told me that there's this guy she went out with once before we started our relationship that from time to time call her to hang out. She told him that she already has a boyfriend (me) but the guy insists by saying, "ok, but let's go out as friends", or "hey, are you still with your bf"

    When I learned about this guy sometime ago, my gf told that when they went out nothing happened. But since this guy insists, I thought that maybe something did happen. I asked her and well she confessed that they had kissed.

    Since I promised myself not to get angry with they things my present gf did in the past (I used to get upset), I tried to take it easy and not complain about it because that happened before we were together.

    She told me that she's kinda fed up with this guy calling her to ask her out, so I said to her, "babe, if that guy calls again, give me his number and I'll take care of it"

    In the case, that this guy calls, and my gf gives me his number, How should I handle this?

    I thought of sending him a text message saying something like "hey mother fucker, stop bothering my girl or you'll regret it"

    Would you do the same?



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    Quote Originally Posted by charly26 View Post
    Hi:

    I've been in this relationship with my gf for 3 months, and since she is starting to trust on me more, she told me that there's this guy she went out with once before we started our relationship that from time to time call her to hang out. She told him that she already has a boyfriend (me) but the guy insists by saying, "ok, but let's go out as friends", or "hey, are you still with your bf"

    When I learned about this guy sometime ago, my gf told that when they went out nothing happened. But since this guy insists, I thought that maybe something did happen. I asked her and well she confessed that they had kissed.

    Since I promised myself not to get angry with they things my present gf did in the past (I used to get upset), I tried to take it easy and not complain about it because that happened before we were together.

    She told me that she's kinda fed up with this guy calling her to ask her out, so I said to her, "babe, if that guy calls again, give me his number and I'll take care of it"

    In the case, that this guy calls, and my gf gives me his number, How should I handle this?

    I thought of sending him a text message saying something like "hey mother fucker, stop bothering my girl or you'll regret it"

    Would you do the same?
    I've had a similar case, I simply told him to back off immediately, now he's scared even to talk to her.

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    Did you know the guy personally? because I don't.
    O you did it through a call?

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    no need to threaten him, just be very blunt and straightforward. ive had guys bug my girls before, and its never gotten to the point where i had to call, but if i did, i would just be straight and tell him to stop wasting his time on a girl that is dating a solid guy
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    Quote Originally Posted by charly26 View Post
    Did you know the guy personally? because I don't.
    O you did it through a call?
    I didn't know him and I sent him a message. He asked me who is and we've talked for a while, the whole time he kept telling me to chill. Funny.

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    hahahahahahaha tell HIM to back off?

    they kissed. it's all her. do you think he physically forced himself upon her (sexual assault)? I think not. She let it happen. It's her fault.

    DUMP her, she cheated on you.

    If you don't, you're essentially condoning her behavior.

    He is not important, he could be any random guy. The question is, is your girlfriend going to kiss EVERY random guy that comes on too strong?

    I never fault the "other guy", because it's pointless. Your girlfriend is in control of her own actions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bobywaker View Post
    hahahahahahaha tell HIM to back off?

    they kissed. it's all her. do you think he physically forced himself upon her (sexual assault)? I think not. She let it happen. It's her fault.

    DUMP her, she cheated on you.

    If you don't, you're essentially condoning her behavior.

    He is not important, he could be any random guy. The question is, is your girlfriend going to kiss EVERY random guy that comes on too strong?

    I never fault the "other guy", because it's pointless. Your girlfriend is in control of her own actions.
    Quote Originally Posted by charly26 View Post
    this guy she went out with once before we started our relationship
    She didn't cheat on him.

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    Bobywalker:
    That episode happened when we were not in the current relationship we are now, we were just dating, and in fact, at that time I was fucking an ex. She obviously doesn't know that and I'll make sure she never will. besides, that's in the past and should remain there. No need to bring it to the present.

    I'm sure that at that time (our dating time), she went out and made out with other boys, not had sex because she lost it with me. And that's what I'm asking: How to dealwith this boy that doesn't understant or doesn't want to that my gf is with someone now (me)

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    Women are supposed to know how to get rid of unwelcome advances. This is not your job. Tell her if she stops taking his calls or returning his texts, he'll get the message.

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