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Discuss hardcore jealousy plotlines by a hot girl at the Relationships within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; Originally Posted by King H So what would you do if you were me? What ...
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    Quote Originally Posted by King H View Post
    So what would you do if you were me?
    What do you want? Friends with benefits / fuck buddy / relationship?



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    Quote Originally Posted by King H View Post
    So what would you do if you were me? Would you continue as I have been or show more interest?
    Show more interest. Shes almost saying hey I like you alot, but theres theese other guys that like me, but Im more interested in you. I would like you to start to like me because if you dont Im going to start to mess with one of theese guys.

    Quote Originally Posted by King H View Post
    I hit her back "I want to "explicit details here" then hold you all night then cook you breakfast in the morning." She hit back she has her son

    I hit back "so I'm right in taking that response as a raincheck?"

    She hits back yes, I hit back see you soon, she hits back K

    She responded back within one minute every time.

    Thoughts?
    Shes going to start to think you only want sex from her, as she wants more. As I imagine so do you. You need to let her know how you feel some time, cuz she can only wait for so long.

    Its so past having to worry about chasing her or not, your past attraction and all of that. What is appears to be is that you got a single mom who needs a man in her life that "loves" and "respects" her and she wants you to be that man.

    And your so worried to "chase her" that your heads so far up your ass to realize this. If you like this woman god damn what the fuck are you waiting for. How about starting to make her feel special if you feel that way. Which it appears that way since you have two threads of the same topic. Fuck

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    Quote Originally Posted by FemmeFatale View Post
    Shes playing a very POOR game.

    The idea is to get you to ASSUME, IMAGINE, and drive yourself crazy. Instead, she bluntly calls you and talks about other men? She is working to get you jealous and she is doing it verbally. By being see through, shes causing resentment from your side, which is probably not a good thing.

    I would simply say to her " you know, you're not my girlfriend, feel free to go out on dates with who ever you wish..if you think this guy likes you, maybe you should ask him out"
    Meh, she's riding his dick, thats game enough for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by a11111 View Post
    She likes you, she thinks you don't like her, she doesn't understand why you don't like her, she thinks making you jealous will make you realize that you do like her so she tries to make you jealous. You not playing into it frustrates her and makes her do it even more. Trust me I've seen a lot of girls try it and it gets to be really obvious.
    For me, this is more likely to make me not want her than to make me want to make it more serious. Should one ever call the girl out on this or is indifference the route to go? Let's say there's a girl I'm dating and having sex with, borderline GF, she overreacts over something and thinks I'm not into her anymore, and starts pulling the jealousy card hardcore. Indifference? Would the same apply in an actual relationship?

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    Quote Originally Posted by King H View Post
    So what would you do if you were me? Would you continue as I have been or show more interest?

    I text her while ago "I have a confession to make" she txt back "what"

    I hit her back "I want to "explicit details here" then hold you all night then cook you breakfast in the morning." She hit back she has her son

    I hit back "so I'm right in taking that response as a raincheck?"

    She hits back yes, I hit back see you soon, she hits back K

    She responded back within one minute every time.

    Thoughts?
    too strong for her. this is outside of the frame you've been operating under (not completely interested fuck-buddy). fuck-buddies don't think of each other when they're not together. we all know that is false, but THAT is the frame.

    telling her you've been thinking about doing explicit things to her, hold her all night (??), and then you want to cook her breakfast in the morning are all way out of your role as a FB. it makes it seem like (correctly) that you like this girl more than just a FB.

    btw, she's not that insecure (or tangibly more than other girls would be). you two agreed to a non-exclusive relationship, and she is throwing that in your face, as she is entitled to do. girls LOVE doing this shit.

    i also disagree that these "jealousy plots" are strong IOIs. she is just keeping you at orbiter range. though you may have sex with her once and a while, she has clearly not accepted you as what she wants entirely.

    the best thing to do is start to treat her and BELIEVE that she doesn't really matter--that she REALLY is a fuckbuddy. when you spend time with her, have a great time, fuck her, and then remove her from your thoughts. this needs to be more true than false before you can trick her into thinking you feel this way.

    right now, your posts clearly reveal that you are interested in her MORE than your current situation. more than likely, she knows the same thing. it makes her very happy indeed, to be able to toy with your emotions.

    if she felt the same way about you, she would have been more receptive to the request for sex/breakfast text than she was. that she responds "in one minute to each" doesn't mean she's digging you, it may just be that you caught her off-guard for a moment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wat View Post
    For me, this is more likely to make me not want her than to make me want to make it more serious. Should one ever call the girl out on this or is indifference the route to go? Let's say there's a girl I'm dating and having sex with, borderline GF, she overreacts over something and thinks I'm not into her anymore, and starts pulling the jealousy card hardcore. Indifference? Would the same apply in an actual relationship?
    A borderline gf follows the same rules as any other girl you're talking to, assuming you're not exclusive with each other already. First of all you never call them out on their shit tests, they'll deny it to you and they'll deny it to themselves and it'll just piss them off. For your second question, I think it depends on what you did that she's reacting to.

    Quote Originally Posted by thetrianglekid View Post
    telling her you've been thinking about doing explicit things to her, hold her all night (??), and then you want to cook her breakfast in the morning are all way out of your role as a FB. it makes it seem like (correctly) that you like this girl more than just a FB.
    Yeah I thought that was kinda weird too. If you had just left it at the "doing explicit things to her" and none of that other stupid shit it woulda been fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by King H View Post
    So what would you do if you were me? Would you continue as I have been or show more interest?

    I text her while ago "I have a confession to make" she txt back "what"

    I hit her back "I want to "explicit details here" then hold you all night then cook you breakfast in the morning." She hit back she has her son

    I hit back "so I'm right in taking that response as a raincheck?"

    She hits back yes, I hit back see you soon, she hits back K

    She responded back within one minute every time.

    Thoughts?
    Haha, the power of "intrigue"...
    At thus point, if you say you've been seeing this girl called Bertha/ Betty or whatever the f;ck, she will get to respond more or probably will start crying

    I can see where this goes...but, I personally wouldn't do that pre-selection dating other women shit now....

    I think she doesn't have anyone else right now and she is shitting with you with all this other guy crap...that's just my guess

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    Quote Originally Posted by King H View Post
    Yea dude, I can somewhat agree that's probably the best thing to do. My deal is I'm in a small town (population 15,000) and dry spells can become a problem sometimes, especially with guys as picky as me. i don't fuck around with ugly-ass women. Maybe I put too much emphasis on beauty..but that's just me. She does have issues no doubt, but she is pretty fun as well. Hell, I'm just gonna keep playing it cool and see what happens.
    It sounds like you have a strong head on your shoulders. Friends with benefits is what you're doing. No reason to stop it. If you date, things won't work out because all that jealously crap doesn't fly. She's trying her best to get under your skin and you're like water off a duck's back. Just have some fun with her and take it for it's worth. Ignore her insecurities and enjoy the ride.

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    "explicit details here" then hold you all night then cook you breakfast in the morning."
    lol?

    At thus point, if you say you've been seeing this girl called Bertha/ Betty or whatever the f;ck, she will get to respond more or probably will start crying
    lol -_-


    So you two are supposed to be fuck buddies. But you want to hold her all night long, and if she knows youre seeing other women she will start crying.

    Out of curiosity. What did you text her in the explicit details here. It better not be something along the lines of 'making love' 'becoming one' 'making babies' or anything else that is not along the lines of 'i will pound you against the wall till the neighbors bang on the door'.
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