Thread: All flirting and no go in text?

I am dating a few girls. However, there is one chick who i have never really gone out with who I am a friend of a friend of..She and I have had lunch and bs'ed at a party once. However, the one time she and I were gonna get a drink she blew me off. I put her on deep freeze and ignored her.

She then added me as a friend and started emailing me about different chicks she saw me with on facebook. Lately she has been sending me flirty texts. The latest? "hey I wanted to mail you something cute for christmas..but the post man took the stamp off my ass and told me to get out of the mailbox".

She seems to be all show and no go..but what would you do with a text like this? be flirty back? cut to the chase? Neg her? I was debating and thought id get some input..thanks!

"Hand deliver it. I'll be home Thursday night from 8-10. I'll see you then "

Set something up. Make her meet you IN PERSON, unless you want to become the text bitch.

By the by... that text she sent you is pretty hilarious. Stolen.

Originally Posted by kink

"Hand deliver it. I'll be home Thursday night from 8-10. I'll see you then "

Set something up. Make her meet you IN PERSON, unless you want to become the text bitch.

Flawless response here. I second Kink's advice.

Originally Posted by kink

"Hand deliver it. I'll be home Thursday night from 8-10. I'll see you then "

Set something up. Make her meet you IN PERSON, unless you want to become the text bitch.

^ Good advice!

Those text messages are forwards I get them all the time. Even from girls that are not attracted to me. So don't take those as an IOI.


I say invite her out to a bar near your place, have few drinks, then hopefully head over to your place, and do NO LMR escalation I have listed in my Signature. Should be cake.

If she flakes , delete her number and her contact info. My time doesn't come free. You better respect it, bitch!

You are a text bitch; neg her and move on!

thanks for the advice..she is persian and told me she was tanning. I waited a long time and then responded "who says I asked for a too tanned egyptian for Xmas??"

she responded "OMG" I can't believe that you said that!!" ..I responded, "Hey next time just hand deliver the package. Put a bow around your neck and show up here on Sunday Night after 8".

I havent' heard back. But Im going out with somebody else tonight.who is hotter...so I'm not sweating it too much..but solid advice all the way on this thread..thanks!