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So I sent this text to a ...
Handle response to "what are you wearing?" text
So I sent this text to a girl. We had a ONS and text occasionally.
"What r u wearing?"
I love this text, but I send it in jest and haven't gotten any serious responses--it always goes in a playful joking direction. Well today, this girl responds with:
"A long coat and red boots and nothing else"
This is in the middle of the day by the way. I wasn't sure where to go with this because I've haven't yet received a text where they respond direct and sexual like this. Being in unknown territory, I actually responded very direct and sexual basically saying she was naughty and that I was going to press my cock against her ass. I wasn't sure about this but I didn't know how to handle it. Anyway she hasn't responded to my text so I feel I may have taken it in the wrong direction.
How would you have responded to this? Also, how would u handle it from here?
At first I was reading it and nodding, going "Mhmm, ok, yup, cool" and then I saw "press my cock against her ass" and about fell out of my chair.
I actually responded very direct and sexual basically saying she was naughty and that I was going to press my cock against her ass.
What PUA book did you steal that one from? Remind me not to buy it! lol
That's not only forward, it's awkward. It doesn't really bring out any sexual desires for 99.99% of woman.. it's not like you're saying "I'll help you lose the jacket if you'd like.. or maybe just the boots? " and being playful sexual, you're just like "K i'm gonna put mah man meats on you!!!"..
hhahah im gonna press my cock up against your ass? hahaha thats great... not in a seductive pua way but yea.
if she hasnt responded try something like "does it take you this long to respong In real life too?" or maybe play it off as a joke "you coulda atleast responded with a "lol" im waiting to use the punch line of that joke"
than if she asks what it is, say she killed it, and ur gonna have to use it someother time.
---- I woulda probably sent a picture message and taken a pictre of someone with red boots and a long coat, off the internet "like this?" http://dallasvintageshop.com/wp-cont...colonial_1.jpg
---- Hmm... I was going for granny panties and a girdle but i guess that will do
If she looks like gold--Treat her like silver
oh man!!! that was f$%king classic!! well I gotta say u got some moxy
first mistake you made is when you have a question like that - you should always know or at least have an idea how you are to respond - this is not difficult in this case the possible results are (i) no response (ii) a non compliant negative response or (iii) a positive compliant response or a (iv) a neutral response e.g. "a suit".
Why not have in your head a general idea of a response for the possible responses before you send the text- you could plan to say the following to (ii) a negative response "ooops wrong person :P" (this actually strikes me as being a good DHV as it shows you are trading sexy texts with someone else [actually i think I am gonna test this out]) or (iii) to a positive response "thats too bad I'm really into (whatever she is not wearing) go change/put some on and and text me back :P" or (iv) a neutral "suit? thats a code for really big knickers isnt it :P"
These of course are just some possible examples- u can think up several others (provided they do not involve your cock and her ass... - thats for later on...after you build comfort not before!
well she did end up replying about 2 hours later. It was a good response, she was into it. I have to remember to keep the abundance mentality. As I'm learning this stuff I'm always pushing the edge and finding out where the boundaries are. Internally, I started to get a little bit needy because when she didn't reply my mind started jumping around and thinking did I say something wrong? Did I blow it? I have to remember to focus on the process and not the outcome. It's all experimentation.
When I'm texting 4 different girls at the same time I don't give a shit and the indifference frees me to act in non-needy ways. As they say there's a difference between pretending to be non-needy and not give a shit and actually being non-needy and not giving a shit.
jay_p you're absolutely right about having the contingencies planned out in advance. I don't have a plan for when they respond sexual to this text. I definitely want to take it sexual if she responds with any kind of sexual innuendo, but I want to calibrate it to women's sexuality and I was worried that I was a little too porno-style. In the end it was actually perfectly calibrated for this girl. However for future reference, what are some good, less hard core responses for this?
sure bro - if she takes it sexual you should take it there too- but like you said always calibrate to the girl in question - this time it worked out which is great (btw CONGRATS!! looks like you got yourself a little freak - use her wisely)
As far as less hardcore responses I gave u a few in my previous post.
Im a huge fan of txt game but wow, ive never quite had "press my cock against ur ass" come to mind haha. if shes that kinda girl then go ahead, otherwise i like to stick with responses that go 50% sexual and 50% funny while being totally unique. So, if shes wearing a long coat and red boots and nothing else, i go with...
"sounds pretty naughty. so tell me... how many buttons does that coat have?"
^tells her that i like the sexiness and that i find the buttons sexiest, not her. its just so unusual and still flirty. fits my style pretty well n id think it would work.
"Wow, u must be chilly. I got on my assless chaps and im catching a huge breeze"
^just popped into my head. a little more out there, but i thought it would still be fun to share with u guys. Might use it depending on the girl
"ugh... lucky boots"
^telling her u wish that u were there... but that u were there on her feet. haha
i just like sending some fun light hearted stuff but with a sexual undertone that theyve never heard. enjoy haha
lol, just saw another thing that jay_p said. the "oops wrong person" could be even better if she said she was wearing something sexy hahaha. i mite have to go for that one and test it on a girl who im pretty sure will give me a positive comliant response. Can u imagine having some1 ask u what ur wearing, so u tell them something seductive, and then they tell u that they didnt mean to ask you! laughing just thinking about it. maybe make it "oops wrong person... but good to know", so shes not too insanely embarassed to respond.
Sylo, I about fell off my chair when I read the assless chaps text. That's some good shit. But yeah, this girl sounds like a freak. It seems like you have her calibrated pretty good.
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