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    help for a response text response

    I day game picked up this chick two days ago in a store. we exchanged numbers and everything, that same day I texted her a smile face "=P" and got no response. However last night I texted her "Do you speak text?" and she replied "yeah". This may sound silly but my biggest problem is where to go from here, what to text back. thanks guys for any support.



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    A smiley face? What did you want her to do smiley face you back? Awe....sweet....then maybe ya'll can go to the mall and hold hands.

    I would go to the text list and pick something out. You want playful and funny, but nothing that comes off too sexual. You need to re-frame to a degree.

    Sorry, but she's probably wondering if your weird or not because of your second text. Never send a girl a text about a non reply. You can bust her on it during a convo, but it was kind of like you were asking why she hadn't hit you up.

    Neediness is bad. They smell it like blood.

    I would be playful with her and maybe a bit aloof. Set up a day two with her for next Thursday, and cancel on Tuesday for a rain check on Friday.

    Biggest thing is you've displayed a little neediness. You need to reframe and make it clear that you are allowing her to be with you.
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    First of all Yeti, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi." Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it." Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?" Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice." And five, now this is the most important, Yeti. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stinky View Post
    now this is the most important, Yeti. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV


    Actually, don't wait that long. Put it on now. It will increase your Testosterone levels and grow thicker hair on your balls!
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    Dude,

    Your first text sucked.You should have sent do you speak text first.

    Thats a standard one in phone game,as for the rest,if you felt you seemed needy,lay of for a couple of days and just ring.Let her wonder if you'll get back to her.If you made a good impression she wont forget you in 2 or 3 days.

    And if she does,then you didnt make a good enough mark.

    Peace.

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    okay i just took something from the text list and sent her "I just made you open your phone for no reason...looks like I got you in check =]" I've gotten nothing back from her so I think I know where I went wrong and how my approach was too needy and or need tighter impression to give off. I'll take this as a lesson and move on with the next number I get. Thanks again guys.

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