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Good stuff, I have been telling myself to improve my phone game for a little while now, THANK YOU!
Good shit man i ama need this info this week! Thanks.
My phone game is probably the best part of my game... If i can get a girl to pick up her phone, i can normally do what I want.
Originally Posted by Rain
I disagree with a lot of Rain's post. Phone calls are a crucial part of the game.
I disagree with the notion that a fucked up phone call doesn't matter because girls have fucked up phone calls all the time. Girls are talking to their established friends... people that they know and like and have rapport with, so they are allowed to talk shit and add very little value. When you first talk to a girl, she is deciding in her mind whether or not you are good to talk with in the future. If the first impression you give to her is one that you are shit to talk with on the phone, the chances of her agreeing to meet with you on a date are dramatically reduced - everything is worse if you can't talk with her on the phone.
Sure.. they will forget a bad call in a hour, but they will be dramatically reminded of it the next time her phone rings, she looks down and sees your name flash up. Then she has to make a choice... should i pick up or not? Now... If every time she has spoken to you so far, you have made a shit, can't be bothered phone call, she is much more likely to let you go through to voicemail. If you were funny, interesting, different, exciting... she is 10 times more likely to answer the call and let you keep on gaming her.
When i come off the phone, i know with 99% accuracy whether this girl will be receptive to future calls and therefore dates... To say that poor phone calls don't matter is incorrect.
It's great for the mindset of the APUA to think.... I don't give a fuck if this phone call goes well or not, I have another 4 HBs to call anyway... If you can internalize that, you will have a much better phone conversation, but the fact is... if the phone call is bad, you are damaging your chances of getting the result you want.
Calling a girl to chat is great... don't ask her out on a date... that is sound advice. Always have some sort of noise in the background. I am always doing something when i am on the phone (driving, walking, cooking), and this means that there is constantly some fresh stuff to talk about. I like to natural style, but if you are a MM follower, have a few funny routines written down and dip into them when the convo lulls.
My 2 cents... Get good at the phone and it will open a shit load of door (or holes) for you.
Peace and love,
Last edited by Baby Girl; 07-05-2006 at 04:06 AM.
I have NEVER had problems with asians and I have run into a roadblock so I am asking for help. This girl is either playing hard to get or genuinely disinterested, which I can't believe as during class she is giving all the right signals, kino [i initiated the first time], heavy EC, hanging on my every word, and telling me i'm funny, fun, have a great smile, and look like this half korean/half caucasian model Daniel Henney. WOW that made my head big but since I take care of my looks and my body...I've gotten Tom Cruise b/c of the nature of my smile but never D. Henney.
Anyway, Once I suggested a study session and she got very excited, asking WHERE???
Which coffee shop??
Since she was excited I asked her if she would like to come. "no..it's ok, it's easier to study in my room"
Next time After class she was going to the ATM with me and 3/4 of the way there she says, WAIT WAIT I can't go anymore. How do I get out of here?[student union].
We talk during class, everythings really fun and interesting but I can't seem to get her to hang out. I have never had this problem before but I am thinking I should call, keep things light, fluff some every few days (a la Juggler) and then later
Anybody else have experience with winning someone over with great persistence even after total cold-shoulder to any suggestions of hang-outs? Honestly they are usually throwing themselves over me so I don't even have to work that much game.
The advice given by Tyler and Juggler couldn't be more diametrically opposed than David D's. David's mantra is scarcity, "give her the gift of missing you." He recommends ending the conversation on your terms, sounding busy. How can I make sense of this?