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    Texting a girl you haven't met...

    Hi guys. I need help with my text game. How do you guys start texting someone you haven't even met? My friend gave me this girls cp no. and he told me to text the girl coz he thought we'd make a good couple. She looks hot on a pic my friend showed me. I dunno how to start tho. Any suggestions?



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    does she know you're about to text her?
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    I don't think so. So i guess it'll be a surprise or something.

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    Ask them to tell her that they gave you her number. Confirm that they did, and then call instead of texting.
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    how about something like this:

    "hey this is *****. **** is pushing for us to meet each other. Not sure why he cares so much. Anyways, i'm not looking for that. If we run into each other lets just be friends ok? ttyl"

    she will probably txt back with "ok". If she does.. txt her with like "so how do u know him anyways?" or start up a convo and work ur way in from there

    what do ya think? lame?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bjswift View Post
    how about something like this:

    "hey this is *****. **** is pushing for us to meet each other. Not sure why he cares so much. Anyways, i'm not looking for that. If we run into each other lets just be friends ok? ttyl"

    she will probably txt back with "ok". If she does.. txt her with like "so how do u know him anyways?" or start up a convo and work ur way in from there

    what do ya think? lame?
    ^ don't disqualify on the 'opener'.

    This might be good in Attraction phase.

    Ask your buddy to invite her over next time you guys hang out.

    If you absolutely must message her (sort of creepy).. give her a slight hook:

    "hey, it's XYZ, ABC's friend. ABC said you're pretty cool and i should message you. So hi"

    she'll prob say "Hi" bck.

    ask her how she knows ABC? ...then ask her to call you.
    Fluff about ABC..and say something along these lines "you sound pretty fun, if you're as cool as ABC, i'd make you my buddy "


    I still think doing "surprise" messages is creepy. but that's just me.
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    this will not work with the text game but as far as aim msn game the way i would handle that would be i would send a false message saying something as far as yeah (your friend) I can't chill tommrow i got basketball workout's or something. than be like sry wrong sn, if she doesn't respond just leave it at that nothing lost nothing gain which is perfect. 98% of the time there going to ask who is this you never give your name first this is because you want to neg her to raise your vaule so even if she know's you from school she will think different of you. any ways she gives her name you than neg like wow this convo is over than say i can't belive you got my sn (push) she's going to ask who's this you than
    revile your name than try to relate with her how you could of got her sn after that your in


    this has never failed me but if you guys find any flaws please let me know

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    WTF? Guys texting a girl that's not expecting a text is creepy.

    It's equivalent of stealing her phone number from away message on aim/msn.

    DO NOT DO IT.

    Tell your buddy to tell her that you'll contacting her.

    And fucking call her; stop beating around the bush with texting crap.

    STEP 1: your friend tells the girl that she should meet you and he gave you her number
    STEP 2: (unless girl gives your buddy shit) Call her
    STEP 3: chat her up, don't disqualify yet, just DHV. Tell her you have to go now and will call her later.


    Keep her wondering.


    Call her back in few days. tell her you were busy but would like to hang out. Ask her what is she doing wed/thur? (No Mondays, Sundays, Fridays or Saturdays) Tuesdays are ok, but wed/thur are best for day 2s.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TrueStory View Post
    WTF? Guys texting a girl that's not expecting a text is creepy.

    It's equivalent of stealing her phone number from away message on aim/msn.

    DO NOT DO IT.

    Tell your buddy to tell her that you'll contacting her.

    And fucking call her; stop beating around the bush with texting crap.

    STEP 1: your friend tells the girl that she should meet you and he gave you her number
    STEP 2: (unless girl gives your buddy shit) Call her
    STEP 3: chat her up, don't disqualify yet, just DHV. Tell her you have to go now and will call her later.


    Keep her wondering.


    Call her back in few days. tell her you were busy but would like to hang out. Ask her what is she doing wed/thur? (No Mondays, Sundays, Fridays or Saturdays) Tuesdays are ok, but wed/thur are best for day 2s.
    Read this post a few hundred times. What you are doing is creepy as hell and sure to get you ignored.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stasis View Post
    Read this post a few hundred times. What you are doing is creepy as hell and sure to get you ignored.
    I took me a second.... i thought you were dissing my post
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