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Which of these two text messages work as the best first text after meeting
MEt a nice girl on friday night, seemed to go pretty well tho was only chatting for 5 / 10 mins as the pub was closing.
We chatted about this new job she was starting, i'm looking for work too and she said I should chuck them a CV. This gave her an excuse to give me her number, which she offered up.
When i left she said to contact her about the job, I replied with "is that the only reason you want to talk to me?" playfully, and she said we shoudl meet up for a drink some time and have a bitch about us both having just moved back with our parents (god that shit is REALLY not helping my game lol).
Soooo, do I start with...
A) Hey Clair, want to meet up for that drink next week some time and escape to parents
B) Hey Clair, great meeting you the other night Cant remember the name of your company to get a CV out to them!
So I can do A - which is the whole i'm interested lets meet up. No fixed date or anything so not to threatening and lets her know that its more than just a job i'm looking for.
OR B - which it MUCH more likely to get a response as its just asking for the name of a comany and there is no good reason not to let me know. Not such a nice text message but will change the frame in terms of "thought he really liked me, maybe he's not into that me and just wants the company name".
Then if I get a text back from B which I imagine I would then I can work up to seeing if she wants to meet up for drink or even getting her to suggest it when she responds.
So what do you think guys?
Hey fella - first post here. PM'd you since we're both in Brighton.
Anyway - I'd go with something like "it was good to meet up the other night - it was great to see someone who wanted to have as much fun as me. I'm out doing blah (DHV), what are you up to?"
I'd leave the job thing and parent thing out of it so she knows you're just catching up and reminding her what a good time she had.
Just my thoughts
Thanks for the suggestion mate, afraid i've just moved back to Winchester and wont be in Brighton for a few weeks.
When i do come down i'll be up for some sarging so give me a shout if yer intersted in hitting a few of the bars. I've been getting really good results out of the gay places down in Kemp town. Lots of single girls and no competition _+ they always think your ded cool for being strait and going to gay bars.
uhh..... no idea what to say... but usually most of us leave NAMES out of posts. usually it looks like this:
hey! [HB] whats up?...
etc etc. its a security thing here.... just an idea...
Thats fair krypos,
Security more for our own protection I guess. Wouldnt want [HB] finding a thread about how some guy closed on her lol
Call her instead of texting.
DAFS, tons of threads on phone game.
Have looked through the pinned up guide and had a quick look at "magic bullets", all of them talk about phoning not texting.
None said phoning is better, tho i'll take another look at the posts on this site. Being a mod here i'll take yer advice and give the girl a shout tomoz and put into action what i read
Once again thanks for all the advice guys!
Personally I wouldn't use any of those texts. I would go with cocky/funny instead, and NOT look to set up a date. Only set up get togethers on the phone (in voice).
"Keep it tight, and Fk the world.. whoever ends up with me that's one lucky girl" - Silkk the Shocker
There are exceptions to the rules... Read Sinn's classic phone/text thread.
He actually prefers to text before calling (if memory serves me).
That should help you some.