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    I just can't figure out if she wants me to chase her more. Because she initiated meeting up, so she may want me to show more interest? And she might be waiting for me to come up with a date? But then again I don't want to come across as needy. Ive not contacted her for the last 5 days, and she hasn't contacted me either. I really need help planning my next move guys!

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    Just keep it cool. Worry about her health. Eventually, she'll re-initiate contact. Text her how she was doing, stuff like showing that you care, and you're concern. But dont ever mention about going on a date with her again, keep it cool.

    Just my insights...

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    Thanks for your reply.

    Yeah, I think I'll just give her a quick text to see how she is getting on and see where it goes from there. See how she responds etc..

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    I text her today. Its been 5 hours and Ive had no response. Do you think in this situation she was waiting for me to text her and I waited too long (8 days)?

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    Hey, it's been 5 days and she hasn't replied. Do you think I should text once more? And if she replies- great, if she doesn't then I guess she's lost interest. Thoughts?

    Anyway I'm going away this weekend so I'm going to try my game in another city!

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    Yeah I think you waited too long. Id call her next time and try to get her on the phone, if you really want to see her again. If not go get some more numbers. What I've been doing is calling and if it goes to voicemail I'll hangup and call again in the next few minutes and leave a message if she doesn't pickup. Don't say call me back when you get a chance, say I'll try giving you again tomorrow night. You shouldnt put chicks on the slow burner unless you have to. But it can get harder in the holidays because there's a lot more family commitments.

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    I text her recently and she text right back. Weird...

    What do you think my strategy should be to try and get towards a date?

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    Same advice i give everyone
    Get off of texting, get on to phone calls - it's quicker, more personal and you can gauge tone etc.

    Then, set YOUR social diary up with fun events and dates. Make yourself have a plan of action and things to do... then, during the conversation, at some point it always gets on to what you're doing that week(end), if not you can bring it casually in. Mention some of the things you're doing.
    Gauge her response, if she says "i'm busy then" - then you know not to ask, and you've saved yourself a rejection or flake... Chances are for one of them she'll show interest. At this point, do NOT invite her. You do not want her to think the whole point was setting up a date. Talk about the event a bit, build her interest and make sure she is interested. She'll be expecting an invite.. move the conversation on - a related fun memory or occasion that you've just thought of. make her think she's missed her chance... let that doubt and regret creep into her... then, like an idea just hit you "you can come with" - note come with, not go together. It's casual, remember, and it's not set up for her and you, it's you having a fun social life that you're allowing her to be a part of.


    ^^rules for all date setting with new girls ^^
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    Example of DLV: She shows me hers...

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    Thanks for the advise maverick.

    Do you not think though that she will find it a little strange if I call out of the blue, because there hasn't been much contact between us lately?

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    Sorry, missed some posts so wasn't aware of the current situation. Yes, calling out of the blue might seem a little strange, and could lead to screening (Depending on how you last left it). One of the best ways to initiate a call is either to get a few texts going, then call - it's obvious that if you're texting that much, you should just call
    OR, never let the contact go cold, so calling is just a natural progression of your interaction.

    I'd re-initiate contact via texts, lots of hooks, no demands etc (look up info on medium to long fuses), then once some interest is gained again, go for the call.
    whatever else, remember: it's only strange if you make it strange. It's all about your attitude and frame.

    good luck
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