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we need to come up with some guidelines for texting women after getting ...
we need to come up with some guidelines for texting women after getting their numbers... if any one has any suggestions please leave some input
Text messages can be useful, girls love em. Its a nice take away when you dont respond to, its like flaking but not lol. Ill make some guidlines later but for now i got this little tid bit.
One instance where i used texting efficiently was back when i set up my old ltr (first one). We banged the week before and she kept asking me if we were going out or not and i kept avoiding it. I finally did the marrige routine but only after raising her insecurties about being a good kisser (dont ask why/how it was a stupid unintentional move). Basically after the marrige routine i forgot to tell her what a good kisser she was and i went out of town right after. She texted me a few hours later and i ignored her text and said something along the lines of "hey! i forgot to mention before i left that all i could think of when i was kissing you was "extraordinary" " She seemed overjoyed and when i got back in town we fuked like rabbits (heavy lmr though )
Anyways its like e-cards, we couldnt care less but tm's are chick crack.
It is nice because it is a good way to DHV with a cute line or something, but it's like leaving myspace comments because its not showing TOO much interest, almost like a tease. Sometimes they are not reliable, I know Sprint isnt consistent and lots of my messages never get recieved.
I don't know how I feel about text messaging. It's asewome for light flirting and such but as for arranging a meeting or whatever I'd go with a phone call. Furthermore, It's easy to take a comment or sentence the wrong way in a text message because you don't know the tone in which it was written.
Quick Guidelinez. feel free to add -
1. Be flirty but not needy
2. be carefull neging ( alwayz use or )
3. don't reply straight away. bite your time.
4. be short and brief. don't over explain thingz.
5. make it fun for both.
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look dude, i belive you're getting too dependant of the forum, but if you want:
1. keep it short, straight to the point
2. don't neg, but don't fluff either, no "sweet talk", keep the language like bussiness language
3. don't ask questions, invite yourself, just say "we're meeting <there> at <hour>, take care"
always keep it simple
Live fast die preety
yeah man ur right texts are beautiful. you can respond if you want to but if you dont respond it doesnt automatically look like youre avoiding the girl. ahh i love technology. cause if you ignore a phone call, youre screwed.
Everything thats already been said
Don't use slang. Like "u" instead of "you", or "2" instead of "too" or "to", etc, you know what I mean.
Don't do it.
uhmm sorry i said "ur" once. biggggggggggggg deal.
i've ignored phone calls with great success
Originally Posted by aleXXX
he meant in the text itself not in your reply
Originally Posted by aleXXX
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